Sunflower318
15-06-20, 14:41
my sister had a wedding planned for this summer since last summer. They plan on inviting 70 people. Maybe more or less. I've told them I don't wanna do it. I'm thr maid of honor and I think its selfish of them to try to get so many people together. Esp people from other states. My mom is pushing me to do a bridal shower and I dont want to. I have 2 kids and I'm trying my best to make calculated risks and do my best to avoid people and such. Like I get it I can't sit inside and avoid life. But I can avoid parties and weddings. I don't know what to do. My mom is in denial over the whole thing. She says things like " it will probably be gone by then" and " its just a cold" and "you can't hide from it". I tried to tell them if the virus is around im not going and that makes my mom mad. They are already saying its nowhere near over and its only the first wave. If it were anyone else's wedding I wouldn't care and just not go. But its my little sister and I'm madr of honor and my kids are thr ring bearer and flower girl. She won't wait until next year. Like with my anxiety itd be hard enough but now with the virus I just want nothing to do with it. I have no idea what to do