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LouiseAndy
12-10-20, 15:12
I'm writing this post with the greatest sadnesses I could ever imagine. My friend since my teenage years, a constant source of joy and laughter in my life SarahNah- real name Margaret is currently in the the ICU. I don't want to go into to much detail, as I don't want to upset not trigger anyone here but I'll give you a idea of it.

As alot of you know, she had alot of mental health issues. A few days ago she went into a episode and tried to take her own life. They don't expect her to make a recovery and it's a matter of trying to work out how to get her parents out to the Netherlands to make any finally choices.

I don't know what to say, expect that I was one of the luckiest people in the world to get to call her my friend. As I have experience so much support here, she did also. You all have no idea how much you helped her in some of her darkest moments. There is so much she had to deal with, life kept just giving her so much to deal with but it never made her bitter.

I'm quite emtoional writing this so very sorry is it's alot of rambling. Her partner- Rob asked me to do a update as I had when she last hit a bad time. He said that he had to thank each one of you, that he said she always felt like their was a voice to listen here.

I'll try to keep this updated, it is a truly sad day.

Thank you for reading.

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BlueIris
12-10-20, 15:27
I cannot tell you how sorry I am. Hoping against hope that she pulls through.

Sending all my love and good wishes.

Carnation
12-10-20, 15:44
:hugs: x

Scass
12-10-20, 15:50
Oh love. I am so very sorry for her and you.
I wish things were better.
Sending love to you and thinking of her x


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pulisa
12-10-20, 18:05
Oh God I'm so sorry to hear this, Louise..That poor girl ..I sincerely hope she makes it but not only that... I hope she makes it and gets the help and support she needs to make her feel that life is worth living again and that she has a meaningful future with her MH issues controlled by the appropriate meds and therapy. She is obviously loved by many people but that is not enough if you are living a life of torment..

Please keep us posted, Louise xxx

MRS STRESS ED
12-10-20, 18:31
Special prayers for you all hope for a good outcome bless you all xx

Buster70
12-10-20, 20:08
I sincerely hope your friend pulls through , Ive been the parent in that position being told your daughter might not make it through the night but ours did against the odds so don’t give up on her just yet , fingers crossed x

NoraB
13-10-20, 07:53
Very sorry to hear about your friend. I hope she makes it. X

pulisa
14-10-20, 20:41
Thinking of Margaret and hoping so much that the news is better xx

LouiseAndy
19-10-20, 14:27
Hi all, Thank you so much for the replies.

They have taken her off any machine that are meant to asset her, she's holding on for the moment. It's touch and go but she is mostly breathing for herself. We sit and wait in hope.

Thank you all again

NoraB
19-10-20, 14:30
Hi all, Thank you so much for the replies.

They have taken her off any machine that are meant to asset her, she's holding on for the moment. It's touch and go but she is mostly breathing for herself. We sit and wait in hope.

Thank you all again

Good to hear that things are moving in the right direction. X

Scass
19-10-20, 17:46
Thank you for this update. I’ve been thinking of you both x


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MRS STRESS ED
19-10-20, 17:49
Thanks goodness please God she will get through this she must be a fighter still praying for you all God bless xx

Carnation
19-10-20, 18:53
Thinking of you and your friend :hugs:

pulisa
19-10-20, 20:35
Thanks so much for updating us, Louise. Obviously she's not out of the woods but she's still fighting..It must be awful for all of you xx

AntsyVee
19-10-20, 21:30
:hugs:Hang in there. Wishing her the best.

Midnight-mouse
22-10-20, 23:52
Only just come to see this. I’m so sorry, it’s a very difficult time I’m too familiar with from personal experience. Sending out positive energies for her, you and all impacted during this time.


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LouiseAndy
29-10-20, 21:39
Thank you all so much for the replies xx,

A lil update, she's been breathing for the most part by herself. She hasn't really "woke up yet" is how her partner Rob described it, but he said he is "comfortable". They been doing lots of tests to check how all her organs will function now- especially her brain activty. There isn't much more to say at the moment, we just sit here in hope for a while longer.

MRS STRESS ED
29-10-20, 21:45
Your all in my thoughts and prayers xx

pulisa
30-10-20, 19:55
The watching and waiting must be awful..Thank you for updating us, Louise..xxx

LouiseAndy
08-11-20, 22:02
Hi all, just dropping by and saying things are much the same at the moment. Which the doctors said is good- seeing they didn't think she make it pass a few days. I'm passing on her partners and parents thanks for all the well wishes xx

MRS STRESS ED
08-11-20, 22:51
Well let's hope and pray she keeps getting stronger xx aa

pulisa
09-11-20, 08:43
At least she is as stable as possible..Thanks so much for updating us, Louise xx

BikerMatt
09-11-20, 20:18
Oh no sorry to read this LouiseAndy.
Thoughts and prayers to SarahNah from me xx

LouiseAndy
09-12-20, 23:58
Thank you all so much for the replies xx Things are going slowly, she has to relearn how to speak and there alot of other issues but we all feel somewhat out of the woods now x Her Partner once again asked me to pass on his many thanks for everyone on here

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fishman65
11-12-20, 22:42
Hoping for a positive outcome for your friend LouiseAndy. For you as well of course xx

MRS STRESS ED
11-12-20, 23:02
Bless you all its all, hopefully its going the right way, sounds like along road to her recovery but she must be strong stay positive prayers to you all xx

LouiseAndy
17-03-21, 00:18
Hi all, thank you again for all the well wishes. Time is sure going go by fast! Sorry I didn't update sooner. Things have been hard and recovery has been slow but Sarah has a fab support circle. She has returned home just a few days ago which makes her partner very happy! It's a long road ahead sadly but there's lots of help if she may need it x

glassgirlw
17-03-21, 00:51
I’ve just now come across this, LouiseAndy - I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but pleased to hear she’s home. Will say a prayer for her continued recovery!

Scass
21-03-21, 22:11
So pleased that she is doing better. Hope you are too. Thinking of you both x


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