Vix223
27-04-23, 09:16
I have suffered with anxiety most of my life. Looking back I suffered mildly as a child bug quite significantly in my teens. In my 20s I was fairly ok, then I had children in my 30s and it just started spiralling,
I worry (in waves) obsessively about all sorts of events. All of which I catastrophise, then think I shouldnÂ’t have had children. I was totally irresponsible bringing them into this world and I canÂ’t protect them from anything. I just panic and my thoughts run wild.
I have tried CBT but it doesnÂ’t really help. I can do some parts but others are just difficult. The thoughts are more powerful than me.
I struggle finding joy in life. I feel guilty for everything I do. Polluting the planet, being on social media, buying anything, throwing things away. My garden, the car I drive. My hobbies. I wonder if things would be better no longer here, though I want to live.
I eat a healthy diet, I exercise. IÂ’m outside a lot. I work full time in a good job. I have a supportive family.
What is wrong and why canÂ’t I get better? Ive started taking sertraline again. I canÂ’t physically talk about it as IÂ’ll just cry and it sounds so stupid my worries. The one time I tried in front of a therapist i could see she was deeply concerned at how hysterical I was about it all and spoke about me being bi-polar (which I do not believe, yes possible GAD, panic maybe OCD?! but not no polar thereÂ’s no highs and lows I was having a panic attack).
I understand anxiety is part of life but I canÂ’t have conversations with anyone about anything futuristic without dwelling on it and becoming panicked.
Is this life? Is this it. Or is there a chance if getting better and if so what would you recommend?
I worry (in waves) obsessively about all sorts of events. All of which I catastrophise, then think I shouldnÂ’t have had children. I was totally irresponsible bringing them into this world and I canÂ’t protect them from anything. I just panic and my thoughts run wild.
I have tried CBT but it doesnÂ’t really help. I can do some parts but others are just difficult. The thoughts are more powerful than me.
I struggle finding joy in life. I feel guilty for everything I do. Polluting the planet, being on social media, buying anything, throwing things away. My garden, the car I drive. My hobbies. I wonder if things would be better no longer here, though I want to live.
I eat a healthy diet, I exercise. IÂ’m outside a lot. I work full time in a good job. I have a supportive family.
What is wrong and why canÂ’t I get better? Ive started taking sertraline again. I canÂ’t physically talk about it as IÂ’ll just cry and it sounds so stupid my worries. The one time I tried in front of a therapist i could see she was deeply concerned at how hysterical I was about it all and spoke about me being bi-polar (which I do not believe, yes possible GAD, panic maybe OCD?! but not no polar thereÂ’s no highs and lows I was having a panic attack).
I understand anxiety is part of life but I canÂ’t have conversations with anyone about anything futuristic without dwelling on it and becoming panicked.
Is this life? Is this it. Or is there a chance if getting better and if so what would you recommend?