nikk_dolittle
04-12-07, 16:09
:hugs: Hey all,
Ive just found out that my sisters work are having a Christmas meal in the eveing on the 21st Decemeber....Its at a hotel that takes nearly 2 and half hours from me. As mum will be busy and unable to go someone has to go with my sisters and mums said I WILL go with out asking if I will.
I will mean staying over night on the thrusday, all day friday and travelling back the saturday. I dont think I can stay as I get soo scared at night, I dont sleep and I'll have to share a room with Sam which is ok but what If I cant, What if I need to self-harm, etc... Its all the what ifs with me now....
Its also the fact, that I dont think I can have the meal too. Apartly with hardly eating again. Its a 5 course SET meal...And I will only eat when I feel I can and its having a set time to eat and what you have. what will happen if I have a panic attack in front of everyone, I wont be able to go home. :weep:
I know I can spend the time Im not doing anything in the gym non-stop, swimming pool etc etc and just having fun but Im having soo many doubts as I cant think about if I want to go..No I have to go.
Also from my sisters work place it will mean, there will be 15 of us in totally and the thought of that is scary as I dont like being near loads of people, especailly when eating.
Im scared as I dont know how I will cope, the next thing is we are out of christmas day at another hotel as my nan is paying for us to go out and thats £65 a head!!!
How can I cope with this?? My anxiety is going through the roof thinkiing about it now. I know I can text people while there but its not going to help everyhting else.:lac:
Sorry
Nikk xxxx:flowers:
Ive just found out that my sisters work are having a Christmas meal in the eveing on the 21st Decemeber....Its at a hotel that takes nearly 2 and half hours from me. As mum will be busy and unable to go someone has to go with my sisters and mums said I WILL go with out asking if I will.
I will mean staying over night on the thrusday, all day friday and travelling back the saturday. I dont think I can stay as I get soo scared at night, I dont sleep and I'll have to share a room with Sam which is ok but what If I cant, What if I need to self-harm, etc... Its all the what ifs with me now....
Its also the fact, that I dont think I can have the meal too. Apartly with hardly eating again. Its a 5 course SET meal...And I will only eat when I feel I can and its having a set time to eat and what you have. what will happen if I have a panic attack in front of everyone, I wont be able to go home. :weep:
I know I can spend the time Im not doing anything in the gym non-stop, swimming pool etc etc and just having fun but Im having soo many doubts as I cant think about if I want to go..No I have to go.
Also from my sisters work place it will mean, there will be 15 of us in totally and the thought of that is scary as I dont like being near loads of people, especailly when eating.
Im scared as I dont know how I will cope, the next thing is we are out of christmas day at another hotel as my nan is paying for us to go out and thats £65 a head!!!
How can I cope with this?? My anxiety is going through the roof thinkiing about it now. I know I can text people while there but its not going to help everyhting else.:lac:
Sorry
Nikk xxxx:flowers: