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Emilys
20-02-08, 20:22
Im 23 but have recently been thinking about my life alot, im with a guy im not sure it gonna last but im so scared of being alone n without him. im scared im gonna spend the next 30 years afraid of doing anything and staying with the worng person and wasting my life!!
Does anyone else feel like this?
:weep:

Bill
21-02-08, 04:37
If you allow fear to dictate your decisions, you could end up marrying someone for the wrong reasons and end up feeling alone within that marriage.

Never be afraid of being alone because as the old saying goes, "there are plenty of fish in the sea" to choose from and one day the "right" fish will turn up who will make you "happy" and that's the fish you'll want to keep for life!

One last thing, a person who suffers from anxiety is normally a loving caring person which means the world is your oyster because everyone will be fighting for your affections so you've actually nothing to fear because you'll never need be alone!:hugs:

AceR1mmer
21-02-08, 18:37
Being alone is'nt scarey, somtimes its better to be alone then with somone who is'nt right for you, its also unfair on the other person.
Stand up for yourself and have what you want out of life, dont just settle,
change is always scarey weither you have anxiety or not so do whatever it takes you make yourself happy:)