overtherainbow
26-02-08, 14:23
Hi everyone,
Please don't be offended if I keep my personal information to a minimum - the main reason is because I am trying to find a way through things with my husband, and I think he may be visiting this site too. I also know a friend uses this website...so I hope I don't have to get too cloak and dagger!
Anyway, I'm in my 30s and have been married for ten years. We have a young daughter (who is the absolute joy of our lives!)
I live in the north east and I'm a full time youth worker, working with young offenders. I love my job but also find it impossibly frustrating and stressful a lot of the time!
I am here mainly because I have a history of (fairly mild) depression and anxiety and have recently come off anti-depressants, and now I am trying to work out if in actual fact my husband has (undiagnosed) depression which may have contributed to problems we have experienced in our relationship a hell of a lot more than I'd (we'd) realised...
And I'm fed up of taking the blame all the time :unsure:
I am very limited for online time (working full time, young child, housework, etc etc, I'm sure many of you know where I'm coming from), so I apologise in advance if I am slow to reply to posts or not as active a participant as I would like to be. Please bear with me - I do enjoy meeting new online pals and do always try to give back as much and more as I receive in support, laughter, etc :)
I hope someone will say hi soon...
Darcy
Please don't be offended if I keep my personal information to a minimum - the main reason is because I am trying to find a way through things with my husband, and I think he may be visiting this site too. I also know a friend uses this website...so I hope I don't have to get too cloak and dagger!
Anyway, I'm in my 30s and have been married for ten years. We have a young daughter (who is the absolute joy of our lives!)
I live in the north east and I'm a full time youth worker, working with young offenders. I love my job but also find it impossibly frustrating and stressful a lot of the time!
I am here mainly because I have a history of (fairly mild) depression and anxiety and have recently come off anti-depressants, and now I am trying to work out if in actual fact my husband has (undiagnosed) depression which may have contributed to problems we have experienced in our relationship a hell of a lot more than I'd (we'd) realised...
And I'm fed up of taking the blame all the time :unsure:
I am very limited for online time (working full time, young child, housework, etc etc, I'm sure many of you know where I'm coming from), so I apologise in advance if I am slow to reply to posts or not as active a participant as I would like to be. Please bear with me - I do enjoy meeting new online pals and do always try to give back as much and more as I receive in support, laughter, etc :)
I hope someone will say hi soon...
Darcy