fifi
05-03-08, 00:13
Just wanted to say it's funny how this illness ebbs and flows.
A month ago I was feeling as low as I possibly could, everything was an uphill battle, socialising on every level was difficult, I posted what I thought at the time was a jokey thread, (for those of you that didn't read it; Fear of emo's, I'm sure everybody has!) but, which turned out to be highly controversial, and as anybody knows who suffers with social phobia, upsetting anybody on any level is a hugely unsettling and disturbing trauma.
Well.... after reading all the responses, common sense kicked in.... you can't please all of the people all of the time.. to keep everybody happy all of the time is unrealistic. And actually I realised that up until getting ill, I had always been quite controversial and not afraid to speak my mind when I felt the occassion warranted it. (don't get me wrong, all of you out there that were offended by what I wrote.. It was never intended as some people took it) BUT, it enabled me to put it into perspective , and... I survived it! and even better still carried that thinking into my everyday life with very positive results.
I guess what I'm trying to say is; with this illness we are always so worried about what everbody else thinks about us, and when in the grips of this it's hard to see that you too are entitled to your opinions. And Okay your not going to please everybody all of the time, but hey.... That's Life!
Fifi
A month ago I was feeling as low as I possibly could, everything was an uphill battle, socialising on every level was difficult, I posted what I thought at the time was a jokey thread, (for those of you that didn't read it; Fear of emo's, I'm sure everybody has!) but, which turned out to be highly controversial, and as anybody knows who suffers with social phobia, upsetting anybody on any level is a hugely unsettling and disturbing trauma.
Well.... after reading all the responses, common sense kicked in.... you can't please all of the people all of the time.. to keep everybody happy all of the time is unrealistic. And actually I realised that up until getting ill, I had always been quite controversial and not afraid to speak my mind when I felt the occassion warranted it. (don't get me wrong, all of you out there that were offended by what I wrote.. It was never intended as some people took it) BUT, it enabled me to put it into perspective , and... I survived it! and even better still carried that thinking into my everyday life with very positive results.
I guess what I'm trying to say is; with this illness we are always so worried about what everbody else thinks about us, and when in the grips of this it's hard to see that you too are entitled to your opinions. And Okay your not going to please everybody all of the time, but hey.... That's Life!
Fifi