Bill
09-03-08, 03:14
Just my thoughts but whatever your viewpoint, I hope to make you "think".
Something I feel we Always need to remember is that it is our frightening thoughts that Create our anxiety symptoms. Therefore, the "cure" is to remember Why we feel so ill so that we learn how to counteract our negative thought processes and so control our symptoms.
The mind is very powerful. It is So powerful that it can deceive us into thinking we're Actually ill when we're not! Sometimes it's Too clever for its own good!
If we're in a crowded shop, we can feel panicky because we feel trapped and that trapped feeling has resulted due to stresses in our past or present. Our anxious symptoms are created through our "thoughts".
If we're sitting at home and we hear something that worries us, we can experience anxious symptoms because of our "thoughts".
If we're under alot of stress, our minds will look for something to worry about which is often about our own health. Our minds create our anxious symptoms through our "thoughts".
If we're confronted by a lion, we'll naturally feel afraid and our minds will create our anxious symptoms through our "thoughts".
It's just that in this modern day society, the stresses we are exposed to are of a different nature where we can't use the adrenalin our "thoughts" are producing so we can't run away from our fears so we feel "trapped" which causes our panics and "feeling ill".
The above I know I've talked about before but there's more to this.
By nature we often "worriers", sensitive and lack confidence so our although our "thoughts" create our symptoms, it is our thinking processes that create our "frightening thoughts".
Ok...so picture this. You're watching the sun go down. It's a gorgeous fiery warm glow........but you're standing near to a cliff edge! Do you enjoy the sunset or worry about getting too close to the cliff edge because of the drop!?
Ok...imagine you're holding a knife! Do you think of what you need it for in preparing food or do you have thoughts that it could harm you or you could harm someone else with it!?
Ok...if someone sneezes near you, do you think they could have hayfever or that dust has got up their nose..or do you worry you might catch a cold!?
Ok...if we go for an interview, do we feel confident in getting the job or fear failing!?
We know that our "frightening thoughts" create our anxious symptoms such as panic etc, and we also know that these "thoughts" are created by our negative thought processes. However, these negative thought processes exist because we perceive Everything as Danger! We have a "fear of Danger" because we need to keep "safe" and need to "feel safe".
This feeling of needing to keep safe is created by our feelings of insecurity. Perhaps we were born like it or perhaps things have happened in our lives to make us fear being abandoned.
Whatever the cause, our negative thoughts create our panics and anxious symptoms but its much more far reaching because All our thoughts and decisions are based on "fear". We are surrounded by "fear". We see danger Everywhere and in Everything where our fears are triggered because our "safe zone" feels under threat.
Therefore, it's not just a case of creating a positive approach to situations where we experience panics or anxious symptoms. We also need to learn a more relaxed approach to this world we live in by accepting "life" for what it is rather than looking for danger in everything. We can only build confidence and feel more secure by learning to "accept and enjoy life" and not "fearing living".:winks:
Something I feel we Always need to remember is that it is our frightening thoughts that Create our anxiety symptoms. Therefore, the "cure" is to remember Why we feel so ill so that we learn how to counteract our negative thought processes and so control our symptoms.
The mind is very powerful. It is So powerful that it can deceive us into thinking we're Actually ill when we're not! Sometimes it's Too clever for its own good!
If we're in a crowded shop, we can feel panicky because we feel trapped and that trapped feeling has resulted due to stresses in our past or present. Our anxious symptoms are created through our "thoughts".
If we're sitting at home and we hear something that worries us, we can experience anxious symptoms because of our "thoughts".
If we're under alot of stress, our minds will look for something to worry about which is often about our own health. Our minds create our anxious symptoms through our "thoughts".
If we're confronted by a lion, we'll naturally feel afraid and our minds will create our anxious symptoms through our "thoughts".
It's just that in this modern day society, the stresses we are exposed to are of a different nature where we can't use the adrenalin our "thoughts" are producing so we can't run away from our fears so we feel "trapped" which causes our panics and "feeling ill".
The above I know I've talked about before but there's more to this.
By nature we often "worriers", sensitive and lack confidence so our although our "thoughts" create our symptoms, it is our thinking processes that create our "frightening thoughts".
Ok...so picture this. You're watching the sun go down. It's a gorgeous fiery warm glow........but you're standing near to a cliff edge! Do you enjoy the sunset or worry about getting too close to the cliff edge because of the drop!?
Ok...imagine you're holding a knife! Do you think of what you need it for in preparing food or do you have thoughts that it could harm you or you could harm someone else with it!?
Ok...if someone sneezes near you, do you think they could have hayfever or that dust has got up their nose..or do you worry you might catch a cold!?
Ok...if we go for an interview, do we feel confident in getting the job or fear failing!?
We know that our "frightening thoughts" create our anxious symptoms such as panic etc, and we also know that these "thoughts" are created by our negative thought processes. However, these negative thought processes exist because we perceive Everything as Danger! We have a "fear of Danger" because we need to keep "safe" and need to "feel safe".
This feeling of needing to keep safe is created by our feelings of insecurity. Perhaps we were born like it or perhaps things have happened in our lives to make us fear being abandoned.
Whatever the cause, our negative thoughts create our panics and anxious symptoms but its much more far reaching because All our thoughts and decisions are based on "fear". We are surrounded by "fear". We see danger Everywhere and in Everything where our fears are triggered because our "safe zone" feels under threat.
Therefore, it's not just a case of creating a positive approach to situations where we experience panics or anxious symptoms. We also need to learn a more relaxed approach to this world we live in by accepting "life" for what it is rather than looking for danger in everything. We can only build confidence and feel more secure by learning to "accept and enjoy life" and not "fearing living".:winks: