thevoicewithinme
07-04-08, 15:53
Hello! Twelve years ago, I overcame Agrophobia, which I had suffered with for seven years, but now it looks like its coming back and I am desperate!
I haven't had the easiest of lives, and last year was very very trying for me and towards the end of the year I started to get the odd panicy sensation now and again.....now though I get them every single time I think of going out!! Whenever I drive my car, I get a panic attack, especially if I am by myself. I cannot avoid going out at all times, as I have my 3 youngest children to take to school and collect everyday, and as I have no friends, there is no one but me.
I live in Stoke on Trent, but I am originally from Kent, so on moving up here I knew that I would have to make friends all over again, but assumed it would happen ok. Unfortunately for me, it hasn't...and I now spend everyday indoors on my own, becoming more and more isolated and more and more desperate.
I have been to the Doctor, but he said what with what happened last year its understandable...told me to get in touch with MIND which I recently did, but they have a 14 week waiting list.
I don't mean to complain, I usually keep things to myself, but I truly am desperate...I need friends, people who understand..my boyfriend has told me its 'in my head' and that just made me feel even more alone. He doesn't understand that all my symptoms are physical and that I truly am terrified, feeling faint, short of breath and heart beating like mad are all real!
Yesterday he wanted to take me out for the day...asked my older son to look after the little ones...but I couldn't do it! He then went into a right mood and barely spoke to me for the rest of the day and even today he is offish with me.
I need help I know I do, and this to me is my first step. I hope to get to know you all and maybe in my own way maybe help some of you too?
Guess that's it for now, like I said I do tend to keep clammed up so think I have said enough for now.
I haven't had the easiest of lives, and last year was very very trying for me and towards the end of the year I started to get the odd panicy sensation now and again.....now though I get them every single time I think of going out!! Whenever I drive my car, I get a panic attack, especially if I am by myself. I cannot avoid going out at all times, as I have my 3 youngest children to take to school and collect everyday, and as I have no friends, there is no one but me.
I live in Stoke on Trent, but I am originally from Kent, so on moving up here I knew that I would have to make friends all over again, but assumed it would happen ok. Unfortunately for me, it hasn't...and I now spend everyday indoors on my own, becoming more and more isolated and more and more desperate.
I have been to the Doctor, but he said what with what happened last year its understandable...told me to get in touch with MIND which I recently did, but they have a 14 week waiting list.
I don't mean to complain, I usually keep things to myself, but I truly am desperate...I need friends, people who understand..my boyfriend has told me its 'in my head' and that just made me feel even more alone. He doesn't understand that all my symptoms are physical and that I truly am terrified, feeling faint, short of breath and heart beating like mad are all real!
Yesterday he wanted to take me out for the day...asked my older son to look after the little ones...but I couldn't do it! He then went into a right mood and barely spoke to me for the rest of the day and even today he is offish with me.
I need help I know I do, and this to me is my first step. I hope to get to know you all and maybe in my own way maybe help some of you too?
Guess that's it for now, like I said I do tend to keep clammed up so think I have said enough for now.