phil06
08-04-08, 21:30
I don't seem to have much confidence right now. I worry about myself 24/7 and have alot of imagined worries some of which stop me doing things.
I feel bad because I go on about myself and my problems to friends/family and a few friends had enough of me going on about how crap things were in my life, so is no longer as good a friend. I need to ask everybody reassurance on almost everything like "is this ok" and "will I be ok if I do this" and I was really bad a year ago when I split with my ex girlfriend and she left me. I have tried to stop worrying but it still continues.
Sometimes when I meet new people I'm a bit quiet and look a bit tense when I am out and can be hard to get to know when I'm not as relaxed.
I think I am driving people like friends away and I've been for a few job interviews and not got the job so feel I am doing something wrong.
Can anybody offer me any advice or relate to how I am feeling? I think it's a bit of a confidence thing but I'm not sure.
I feel bad because I go on about myself and my problems to friends/family and a few friends had enough of me going on about how crap things were in my life, so is no longer as good a friend. I need to ask everybody reassurance on almost everything like "is this ok" and "will I be ok if I do this" and I was really bad a year ago when I split with my ex girlfriend and she left me. I have tried to stop worrying but it still continues.
Sometimes when I meet new people I'm a bit quiet and look a bit tense when I am out and can be hard to get to know when I'm not as relaxed.
I think I am driving people like friends away and I've been for a few job interviews and not got the job so feel I am doing something wrong.
Can anybody offer me any advice or relate to how I am feeling? I think it's a bit of a confidence thing but I'm not sure.