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bexy1970
21-04-08, 09:09
HI FOLKS
I NEED TO GIVE MYSELF A KICK UP TH BACKSIDE AND SEE SENSE, SO THOUGHT ID PASS BY YOU LOT IF THATS OK?
I WAS ON THE PILL (CONTRACEPTIVE) TRINOVUM THIS TIME LAST YEAR FOR MY PMT AND WAS OK ON IT.
DURING THIS TIME I HAD A TERRIBLE TIME AFTER A TOOTH BEING TAKEN OUT WENT WRONG AND I WAS IN BED IN AGONY FOR DAYS, TOOK BOUT 3 WEEKS TO SORT OUT,, THIS IS WHEN I HAD A PA OUT OF THE BLUE(FIRST ONE IN YEARS).
WAS FINE THEN LOST MY DAD SUDDENLY AND IN A AWFUL WAY (LONG STORY), THEN WENT TO ROME STILL IN SHOCK BOUT DAD, BUT WE WENT AS THOUGHT IT WOULD DO ME GOOD! THIS IS WHEN MY PA,S STARTED BIG TIME WAS TERRIBLE OUT THERE, THEN WHEN CAME HOME JUST AS BAD, GOT PUT ON MEDS, ANY WAY WOT IM TRYING TO SAY (SORRY IM WAFFLING )I TRIED TO PIN POINT WHAT HAD BOUGHT ON MY ANXIETY ETC AND BLAMED MY PILL!! NOW IVE WRITTEN ALL THIS DOWN I FEEL DAFT COS I KNOW IT WASNT IT WAS EVERYTHING ELSE! BUT DC PRESCRIBED ME THEM AGAIN COS MY PMT SOOO BAD. STARTED THEM TODAY AND NOW IM SCARED AGAIN. WANT TO BEAT THIS DAFTNESS. AND I KNOW IN MY HEART I AM BEIN DAFT ITS MY BLOODY ANXIETY MAKIN ME WORRY..APRIL AND MAY LAST YEAR WERE HORRIFIC FOR ME!! SO IT WASNT THE PILL WAS IT? OH ADVICE PLEEZE FOLKS, MY OH RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE WITH ME ( HES BRILL USUALLY) REALLY SORRY FOR WAFFLING ON, OH AND PS IM BIT WORRIED TO AS MY BLOOD PRESSURE UP A BIT AND ALL LEAFLETS SAY NOT TO TAKE PILL BUT MY DC SAID IM FINE AS NOT TOO HIGH!! BECC XXX:doh:

maddie
21-04-08, 10:50
Hi. Do what your doc says. Get the physical things under control first. If your hormones are out of kilter, this could be causing many of the symptoms you think of as anxiety.
Allow yourself time to grieve for your Dad. First anniversaries of a loss are always hard, but the grief is normal. You say you lost him in an awful way. Have you seen a grief counsellor? It might help.
Slow down and do some things you enjoy. It's a lovely time of year. Try to get out, exercise and have some quality time. You'll feel better for it.

bexy1970
21-04-08, 16:33
Hi,
Thanks Maddie, Ive Rung Cruze, The Docs Wanted Me To Wait Till Now , As My Grief Was Coming Out In Anxiety If You Get Me, But Now More Under Control, Will Carry On With The Pill, Spose Ccs Know What Theyre Doin!! Xx