kashameets
30-04-08, 00:58
i don't post on here that often but i do read most posts.
the thing is Ive suffered from social phobia all my life which then turned in to agoraphobia so i cant ever remember feeling what id call normal.
it all started with me when i was 18 months old and my mum went in to hospital for quite a while, when she came out i wouldnt have anything to do with her for a few days and then became very clingy with her, it just got worse as i grew up, i wouldnt talk to aunts or uncles, hated play school and was told i couldn't go again as they had never seen a child so upset.
school was a nightmare, i never spook to my teacher for a year, they said they thought i was just shy and would grow out of it.
secondary school was worse, i didn't go that often and the teachers just thought i was just bunking off not that anything was wrong.
left school at 16 , didn't work till i was 27 and then only lasted 6 months.
I'm now 33 but the thing is i read all your posts about how you hate being how you are and want to get better and well i don't know how that feels as to me how i am is normal, I've never known any different:shrug:
in some ways not being scared going out scares me as i wouldnt feel like me.
does anyone else feel that way?
is your phobia or illness kind of a safety blanket?
the thing is Ive suffered from social phobia all my life which then turned in to agoraphobia so i cant ever remember feeling what id call normal.
it all started with me when i was 18 months old and my mum went in to hospital for quite a while, when she came out i wouldnt have anything to do with her for a few days and then became very clingy with her, it just got worse as i grew up, i wouldnt talk to aunts or uncles, hated play school and was told i couldn't go again as they had never seen a child so upset.
school was a nightmare, i never spook to my teacher for a year, they said they thought i was just shy and would grow out of it.
secondary school was worse, i didn't go that often and the teachers just thought i was just bunking off not that anything was wrong.
left school at 16 , didn't work till i was 27 and then only lasted 6 months.
I'm now 33 but the thing is i read all your posts about how you hate being how you are and want to get better and well i don't know how that feels as to me how i am is normal, I've never known any different:shrug:
in some ways not being scared going out scares me as i wouldnt feel like me.
does anyone else feel that way?
is your phobia or illness kind of a safety blanket?