Julz P
07-05-08, 21:33
I've been back at work since January after nearly 4 months off sick. My brain give up on me after I constantly ignored it's warnings - not a nice place to be. Work did all the "right things" after the breakdown, though obviously didn't help before! They paid for CBT, gave me a return to work program that started with a very light load and 4 hours a day. The following week was 5 hour days with the load increasing etc. Regular update meetings, lots of conversations behind closed doors between HR & boss. One-to-one assertiveness training when I asked for it (which to be honest has been a revelation). It looks like they've ticked all the boxes.
Unfortunately I am still not up to speed, I work too slowly and make silly mistakes. I'm told this and other negative stuff on a regular basis since I returned from holiday in April. It's as if the management made a decision whilst I was away that I'm not worth the effort anymore. Since I returned from holiday I had been feeling much better, ready to start fresh, but now I have exclusion and critisism to contend with as well as hearing rumours and speculation which is making me worry about my job and therefore concentrate and sleep less etc. I've been told that my workload will increase as new things will be happening at work and they want to know now if I can cope with it, oh and they don't think I can - nice! Meetings with HR prior to the holiday were all "nice", but there is no longer much communication between them and me, instead it's more towing company line from them.
Today they (HR & my boss) asked me if I would agree to an assessment by an occupation health person to tell us if I was capable of doing my job! I'm scared stupid. What if there told that I can't! It's partly due to work and the lack of support that led to my breakdown to start with. I know they can't wait forever for me to get up to speed, but I have worked hard and studied two professional levels of exam to get where I am, I don't want them to take it away.
I really don't know what to do anymore. I said I'd go back to the doctor to reduce my medication so I was more "in", (40mg fluoxitine & 80mg propranalol) but I'm already getting myself in a flap!
Sorry for waffling, but has anyone any advice?
Unfortunately I am still not up to speed, I work too slowly and make silly mistakes. I'm told this and other negative stuff on a regular basis since I returned from holiday in April. It's as if the management made a decision whilst I was away that I'm not worth the effort anymore. Since I returned from holiday I had been feeling much better, ready to start fresh, but now I have exclusion and critisism to contend with as well as hearing rumours and speculation which is making me worry about my job and therefore concentrate and sleep less etc. I've been told that my workload will increase as new things will be happening at work and they want to know now if I can cope with it, oh and they don't think I can - nice! Meetings with HR prior to the holiday were all "nice", but there is no longer much communication between them and me, instead it's more towing company line from them.
Today they (HR & my boss) asked me if I would agree to an assessment by an occupation health person to tell us if I was capable of doing my job! I'm scared stupid. What if there told that I can't! It's partly due to work and the lack of support that led to my breakdown to start with. I know they can't wait forever for me to get up to speed, but I have worked hard and studied two professional levels of exam to get where I am, I don't want them to take it away.
I really don't know what to do anymore. I said I'd go back to the doctor to reduce my medication so I was more "in", (40mg fluoxitine & 80mg propranalol) but I'm already getting myself in a flap!
Sorry for waffling, but has anyone any advice?