franfhm
15-05-08, 19:50
A couple of you may remember I was having a difficult spell with my boyfriend a few weeks ago, where we had split up due to what seemed like a depression problem he had.
Anyway I went away for the weekend to stay with a friend, came home and he had missed me, said things would change, he would help around the house more, take more responsibility for the dog etc etc.
I started my new job on Monday, which I am enjoying so far, but the downside is that I have to travel almost 100 mile round trip, which I am prepared to do due to lack of jobs where I live in my chosen career path.
My boyfriend does a fair bit of travelling with his job too, and I can now understand why he comes home so tired and ratty, but still I clean up his mess, look after the dog and everything.
He's worked late every night this week - ok not his fault but the night he can manage to finish on time he gets his friends over for a party, and lets them stay until gone 11, which I don't mind - but I am starting to now as I'm so tired and want to go to bed by 10.30.
He's turned into being inconsiderate and grumpy again, and won't talk to me, has stopped eating - which is annoying me too, as I don't have much money at the moment to buy food, and its all going to waste.
Sorry just needed a rant, I really don't need this seeting off my anx again :weep:
Anyway I went away for the weekend to stay with a friend, came home and he had missed me, said things would change, he would help around the house more, take more responsibility for the dog etc etc.
I started my new job on Monday, which I am enjoying so far, but the downside is that I have to travel almost 100 mile round trip, which I am prepared to do due to lack of jobs where I live in my chosen career path.
My boyfriend does a fair bit of travelling with his job too, and I can now understand why he comes home so tired and ratty, but still I clean up his mess, look after the dog and everything.
He's worked late every night this week - ok not his fault but the night he can manage to finish on time he gets his friends over for a party, and lets them stay until gone 11, which I don't mind - but I am starting to now as I'm so tired and want to go to bed by 10.30.
He's turned into being inconsiderate and grumpy again, and won't talk to me, has stopped eating - which is annoying me too, as I don't have much money at the moment to buy food, and its all going to waste.
Sorry just needed a rant, I really don't need this seeting off my anx again :weep: