Any advice etc welcome.....

[kazzie]

Hi :D

Im in a bit of a pickle here:wacko:

I have been looking for a job for ages now, I have mobility problems and sometimes need to use a wheelchair or walking stick, so that rules out quite a few jobs!!!

Anyhow my ideal job appears in the paper on Saturday......working 5 afternoons a week in an undertakers arranging funerals:)

It gives the number and says ring Mr so an so for a chat and to arrange an interview

Do you think I can pluck up the guts to ring:mad: as soon as I think about it I start to panic and Im now worried that Im not as cured as I thought I was cos the thought of any sort of responsibility terrifies me:weep:

Can anyone else relate to this:shrug:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[chalky]

Hi Kazzie,

Dr Klaus von Spottybutt once said:-

"Just feckin do it!" :doh: :whistles:

If you don't,you will worry about "what if I had..?"
If you do,at the very least,you will know that you tried.

You have absolutely nothing to lose by trying!!
Believe in yourself!!
Best wishes,
Chalky

[Cathy V]

Hi Kaz, I think you're being too hard on yourself, your anx about this isn't because of any set-backs, its because its a naturel reaction felt by most people in the same situation, anx sufferers or not! Go for it girl :yesyes:

Chalky...you always make me smile :)
Cathy xx

[Lilith1980]

I have a bit of a block when it comes to ringing people too hun. I guess I worry that the person on the end of the phone will be annoyed with me.

But the best advice I ever gave myself was to just go for it, and when I do phone people there's never been a problem.

You want this job, the funeral directors are expecting people to ring, so I'm sure they will be very pleased to hear from you :hugs:

Jo xxxxx

[amandaj]

sorry i got no advice to offer as such but ring it and get that dream job go for it and best of luck

amanda xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[jo61]

If the job is right for you, then it'll work out. If it makes your anx worse then it's not right. You'll never know if you don't phone; what have you got to lose. Go for it!!:D

[tayside lassie]

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[dianes]

Hi Kaz :D

I agree with the post that said it is natural to feel anxious about phoning for a job. Tell yourself YOU CAN DO THIS and make the phone call :yesyes:

You will regret it if you don't. We will all be keeping our fingers (and anything else) crossed for you. :yesyes: :yesyes:

Let us know how you get on.

Diane

'Remember, your imagination is always much worse than the reality'

[Piglet]

Kaz you could do it in your sleep - go on ring them!! :yesyes:

Love Piglet :flowers:

[kazzie]

Thanks Guys:hugs:

So I finally rang them:yesyes:

And the bloke I needed to speak too isent in till Wednesday:mad:

The one who answered the phone sounded well miserable tho:wacko:

Will keep you all posted.....I will be ringing again on Wednesday:yesyes:

Thank you all:hugs:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[honeybee3939]

:yesyes: :yesyes: Well done Kazz for getting the courage to phone!

Will look forward to hearing about what happens on Wednesday, good luck:flowers:

Love
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx

[tayside lassie]

thats great that you phoned kaz so happy for ya hope all goes well ...

[kazzie]

Thanks Guys:hugs:

Will keep ya posted:yesyes:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[kazzie]

Hello:D

Well job done He has posted me an application form:ohmy:

Felt the panic rising just thinking about work so had a diazipam:wacko:

I just hope that Im as cured as I believed Im starting to wonder if I have designed my life so I never have to be in a situation where I may panic so I think Im cured when in fact Im not:shrug:

Dunno if anyone can relate to this at all:shrug:

Kaz x:hugs:

[Pink Panic]

A big well done for phoning :yesyes:

I guess you have to start believing in yourself but us anxer's (is that a word? lol)
find that sooo hard! I know i keep thinking i can do things and then when i have to go ahead and do it, it's sooo hard as the anx thoughts are always in the background.
Hope this makes sense and helps.

Good luck with it all, hope to hear how you got on. :hugs:

Pink
xxx

[kazzie]

Thanks everyone:D

Well the form arrived and has been completed along with a copy of my CV and a covering letter:yesyes:

Will let you know if I get an interview:yesyes:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[jo61]

Well done Kazzie. Great to have got this far. Look forward to hearing what happens :hugs:

[kazzie]

Thanks jo:hugs:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[flowerhorn]

I can understand ur part on picking the phone but if u really get the job, would u have enough courage to survive those eriee nights?

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[kazzie]

Thanks Flower:)

There are no eerie nights lol.....its a day job Mon to Fri!!!

I have to go back to work.....I have spent 2 years sitting in here since I was made redundant.....I used to work from home but its time I rejoined the real world again:wacko:

Thanks for the tips tho:yesyes:

Kaz x x x

[bottleblond]

Awwwwww Kazz hun, you made me howl with laughter!! bleedin ell!!! your ideal job in an undertakers :roflmao: God hun that's tickled me pink, it really has.


I'm going to keep my fingers and toes crossed for you that you get this job, your a lovely person with a huge heart so i think you'd be great!!

Very best of luck mate
Love Lisa
xxxxxxxxx

[bottleblond]

Kazz you hve just reminded me of a wee story

When i was 4, my dad was taking me on the bus to visit my gran. Not far from where we lived was a massive graveyard.

As the bus stopped at the graveyard, i allegedly jumped to my feet pointing and shouting " Daddy Daddy look, that's where all the dead people live"!!! :doh:

I should have been a natural blonde instead of a bottleblonde lol

Love Lisa
xxxxx

[kazzie]

Thanks Flower:)

Lol Blondy:roflmao: :roflmao: :roflmao:

I dont know why I fancy working in an undertakers really:shrug:

Still got to be asked for an interview first.....and manage to attend it:whistles:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

[kazzie]

:yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: OMG

Got a letter this morning to go for an interview on 12th June at 1.15pm:yesyes:

Let the panic commence:whistles:

Kaz x x x:hugs: