MatthewH
21-05-08, 23:12
Im not sure if this is the right place to post this, but i suppose its as good a place as any!
Last year, i had my first panic attack. I was in bed with my girlfriend and the next thing i knew, i had pins and needles in my left arm. My first thought was instantly 'Oh god, im having a heart attack!' and i really went into a mess. I was sick, couldnt move, hands clenched etc... My girlfriend had to ring an ambulance, i didnt have a clue what was going on. So they say to me its JUST a panic attack, and ill be fine.
Since that day, ive had only one other attack, while again on way to a hospital.
The main problem i seem to have is that if i go out somewhere with my girlfriend, or if i go shopping or for a drink with friends, i always seem to feel really sick for the first hour or so. I tried to go out for a birthday last year (the other halfs) and i couldnt even make it out the door. I felt like such a let down.
I dont know what this is, i dont know if its anxiety, or mild panic attacks, or what, but it really gets me down sometimes.
The weird thing is, im a soldier, and ive been all over the world doing my job, and have never even had an incling of any problems. It always seems to happen if i go shopping or for a drink with friends. Its especially bad when im with my girlfriend. She is very understanding about it, and supports me, but i still worry when im around her.
Please please can somebody help me to overcome my fear of going out to restaurants etc, so that i can finally be a decent boyfriend!
(If this post is in the wrong section, i do apologise and please feel free to remove/delete)
Last year, i had my first panic attack. I was in bed with my girlfriend and the next thing i knew, i had pins and needles in my left arm. My first thought was instantly 'Oh god, im having a heart attack!' and i really went into a mess. I was sick, couldnt move, hands clenched etc... My girlfriend had to ring an ambulance, i didnt have a clue what was going on. So they say to me its JUST a panic attack, and ill be fine.
Since that day, ive had only one other attack, while again on way to a hospital.
The main problem i seem to have is that if i go out somewhere with my girlfriend, or if i go shopping or for a drink with friends, i always seem to feel really sick for the first hour or so. I tried to go out for a birthday last year (the other halfs) and i couldnt even make it out the door. I felt like such a let down.
I dont know what this is, i dont know if its anxiety, or mild panic attacks, or what, but it really gets me down sometimes.
The weird thing is, im a soldier, and ive been all over the world doing my job, and have never even had an incling of any problems. It always seems to happen if i go shopping or for a drink with friends. Its especially bad when im with my girlfriend. She is very understanding about it, and supports me, but i still worry when im around her.
Please please can somebody help me to overcome my fear of going out to restaurants etc, so that i can finally be a decent boyfriend!
(If this post is in the wrong section, i do apologise and please feel free to remove/delete)