Juneie
12-04-05, 18:14
I find myself wondering why sometimes I can do things and other times I cant, perhaps there is no reason and searching for answers is fruitless. I have been on holiday from work for two weeks and in that time ive hardly been out. I have agoraphobia but have always been able to drive to work about 5 mins away. Since being back at work yesterday ive made an effort to try and slowly go a bit further, on the way to work yesterday I drove slightly out of my way round a couple of roundabouts by my local supermarket and then to work, prob just 2 mins further. On the way back from work yesterday I drove past the local stables where my daughter has lessons and a bit futher past it then back home, prob about 5 mins. This morning for the first time in a couple of weeks I was able to pop into a local store on the way to work and then took a longer route to work. After work today I drove to the supermarket, bought a couple of items then did the journey past the stables and back again. None of this gave me any more than mild anxiety and I was really pleased with myself. This evening, as on most Tuesdays my daughter was going to the stables and this filled me with fear, even after what I have achieved in the last couple of days. I did go, and I made it there and back, but the anxiety was much, much worse, I did not reach the stage of a panic attack, but the dreaded fear was there. I coped by talking to myself, telling myself to slow my thoughts down and reassuring myself that even if I did have a panic attack I would still as always be able to get back home. Of course in an hrs time I have to pick her up from the stables and bring her home, I am quite fearful of this but not panicking. Im sure the reasons dont matter, but it does seem that when im actually planning to go out, (unless its to work) I sit and work myself up about it. I am determined to keep on with my slowly but surely attempt to go farther afield and im sure its normal to sometimes be more anxious than others, its hard tho as im sure most of you know, not to let one thing ruin what otherwise has been a very successful day.
June x
long term panic/anxiety sufferer, add agroaphobia to that, fed up
June x
long term panic/anxiety sufferer, add agroaphobia to that, fed up