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weeble40
07-06-08, 22:52
Hi all I dont normally go around asking for hugs but could use a few today

yesterday my dad collasped at work he was taken to hospital, they did some tests and a scan, they have found a tumour on his Brain, I cant stop crying, already he has become confused and doesnt know were he is or what day it is, does this usually happen so quickly???? any hugs greatly recieved

Emma xxxx

kazzie
07-06-08, 23:01
:bighug1: :hugs: :bighug1: :hugs: :bighug1: Emma

Luv Kaz x x x:hugs:

marie1974
07-06-08, 23:02
hiya im so sorry about your dad i dont know anything about brain tumours but i just wanna give u a hug:hugs: hope he gets better soon xx

manmoor
08-06-08, 03:26
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: FOR EMMA XXX

Granny Primark
08-06-08, 07:48
Emma :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: loads of hugs to you and your family.
It must be really really tough for you all.
Try to think positive. Seeing Russell Watson on the tv these last few weeks talking about his struggles with 2 brain tumours and how hes survived hopefully gives you and your family some comfort at this time when you all must feel so sad.
Thinking of you.
Loads of love.

jesse08
08-06-08, 08:13
Hi Emma, sending you lots of Hugs
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smudgie
08-06-08, 08:42
Dear Emma:hugs:

I am very sorry to hear what has happened to your dad:hugs:

sending hugs to you and all your family, we may not be phsyically there with you but in your heart I want you to know we are there and holding your hand:bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1:

thinking of you
smudgie:hugs:

Oceanblue
08-06-08, 08:48
Emma, :bighug1:

Sorry to hear about your dad. Thinking of you and wishing him well xx

Jaco45er
08-06-08, 08:52
Emma xxxxxx my fingers are crossed hoping he has a speedy recovery :hugs:

SAMKIRMAN
08-06-08, 09:22
big hugs to you mate i only down the road from you give me a shout on facebook will crossed my fingers and toes that your dad recovers xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxx

Cathy V
08-06-08, 09:32
Emma I wish your dad a speedy recovery and send a hug to you. Keep us updated if and when you can.

Cathy xxxxxxx

thevoicewithinme
08-06-08, 10:06
Sending you big hugs Emma :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: and hugs for your dad too :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Kaz xx

IrishPrincess
08-06-08, 12:39
Emma sending lots of love and hugs to you,your dad and your family,wishing your dad a quick recovery.
:bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1:

t0rt01se36
08-06-08, 13:14
Big hugs from me to you. Like Granny P, I was gonna mention Russell Watson. Why don't you have a look at his website?

weeble40
08-06-08, 13:38
Thankyou all for your kind replies, it gives us courage to know so many people are out there thinking of us, ill keep you updated many many thanks again

Emma xx

bottleblond
08-06-08, 14:23
Emma

So sorry to hear your dad is ill.

Sending you and your dad lots of hugs and i hope he gets well real soon

:bighug1::bighug1::bighug1::bighug1:

Lots of luv
Lisa
xxxxxx
:flowers:

margaret911
08-06-08, 20:20
:bighug1: :bighug1: for you Emma and :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: for your dad, hope he makes a speedy recovery.


love Mags xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

milly jones
08-06-08, 20:26
hi em,

loads of hugs hun to you

thinking of u

millyxxx :flowers:

erialc
08-06-08, 20:34
Me,

Am so so sorry to hear your dad is not well, Thinking of you

Claire

xxxxxxxx

dawny
08-06-08, 21:24
emma

oh mate...i hope you are ok hun.....

i hope your dad will be ok too

thinking of you

dawny xxxxx

pooh
08-06-08, 23:10
Hi Emma

thinkin about you hope tomorrow go's ok

Lynne x

funky chick
08-06-08, 23:19
:hugs: sending you hugs and thinking of you Emma lots of love Gail xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

traciec39
09-06-08, 00:12
Lots of love n kisses to you and l your family esp your daddy, please god he will be ok sweetheart xxxx
lu tracie xxx

weeble40
10-06-08, 23:35
Quick update

Dad had MRI today they have found a lesion around 2cm on his brain , they have told us it could of been there for 20 years or could be new, they have said they cant rule out cancer, but are in no rush to move him to ICU to operate, they told us if he didnt collapse, and just had headache he could of been waiting on list for up to 2 years, this has given us all some hope, thankyou all again for your continued love and support,

Emma xxxx

PS: could someone email my Dad and tell him no matter how many times he asks I DONT LIKE TEA!!!! if he asked if I want a cup once he asked me 100 times bless him

SAMKIRMAN
10-06-08, 23:39
pmpl you want a cup of tea emma

weeble40
12-06-08, 13:49
Quick update

Dad is still in hospital, they have found a tumour we still dont know if its cancer or not, trying to keep chins up but its so hard,
Emma xxxx

jodie
12-06-08, 13:57
hi emma:hugs:

just to let you know that i am thinking of you and your dad i hope he gets better real soon

keep your chin up mate

jodie xxx:hugs:

milly jones
12-06-08, 13:59
decaff then me?

keep smiling hun

were all there for u

milly xx

betsie_darkdoom
12-06-08, 14:15
hope you are felling a bit better now. its tough finding out something like that. hope all goes well with your dad and if you ever need to chat to someone even if you just want a shoudler to cry on im here. :bighug1: maybe say yes to a cup of tea make hime a bit more restful?

Hope 2
14-06-08, 02:40
Hi Emma

Sending you a hug and know you and yours are in my thoughts. Hope your Dad gets well soon.

Luv Hope xx

weeble40
25-06-08, 10:26
hi all just to let you know poor old Dad is still in hospital, they keep promising to transfer him to bigger hospital for his op but nothing has happened yet, he is becoming very anxious now but he has stopped smoking while been in there so thats good, Im going abroad on monday and feel a little guilty for leaving him but he's insisting I go, I want to thank all on here who has sent us love and support, it has helped me get through some horrible days, my love to you all,

Emma xxx

kazzie
25-06-08, 15:44
Thinking of You Emma:hugs:

Kaz x x x:hugs:

jodie
25-06-08, 16:46
hiya Emma

i know it is hard for you right now but try have a relax while your away Hun you probs need it .
thinking if you and your family i am sure things will get sorted out soon mate

Jodie :bighug1:

Angel64
25-06-08, 17:55
Hi Emma, I havent been in here for a while.

Sorry to hear about your Dad, I will send you loads of hugs, hope he
Gets Well Soon.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Christine xx :flowers:

weeble40
25-06-08, 18:18
hello all again just to let you know they transfered Dad this afternoon, he is now in a nerological unit in Hull, they meant to be good hospital, think they gonna operate tomorrow or friday, ill keep you posted, my love and thanks again

Emma xxx

Nibbles
25-06-08, 18:44
Hi Emma,

I'm glad things are on the move and hope everything goes well.


:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

Take care,

Mike :)

Southern_Belle
25-06-08, 19:19
Hi Emma,

I am so very sorry that your Dad is ill and want you to know that your Dad, you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers during this stressful time. Try and enjoy your trip.

Laura xxx

kellie
25-06-08, 22:10
Just to let you know hun that im thinking of you, your dad and all your family at this anxious time. Im sure he is in great hands and i hope everything goes well with the op. stay positve hun and keep your chin up ok and i hope you have a good holiday.

love to you all
take care.

kellie.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

EmmaJane
25-06-08, 22:49
Hi Emma,

Wish you all the best with your dad, hope it all goes well.

nomorepanic
25-06-08, 23:00
Emma

I hope everything goes well with dad. Our thoughts are with you all at this time.

bab
26-06-08, 10:01
sending you lots of love xx

lesleya
26-06-08, 12:09
So sorry to hear your dads ill emma i truly hope he recovers very soon.
Love and hugs
xxxx
:bighug1:
:bighug1:
:bighug1:

jodie
26-06-08, 21:21
hiya em

just sending you some :bighug1:

jodie xx

beri
26-06-08, 21:31
hope you dad gets better soon xxxxxxxxxx

jenny xxxxxxxxx

:hugs: :bighug1: :hugs: :bighug1: :hugs: :bighug1:

pooh
27-06-08, 11:17
HIya Emma. I know the op is today. Just want you to know I'm thinkin about you!

Pooh xxx

Southern_Belle
27-06-08, 14:35
Emma,

Still thinking and saying prayers for your Dad, you and your family. I hope all goes well today.

Love and many hugs,

Laura

dawny
27-06-08, 14:37
emma,

how is your dad getting along.....

love and cuddles

dawny xxxxx

Emira7
27-06-08, 21:39
me, so sorry to hear that.

Hugs for you and your family
xx

weeble40
27-06-08, 21:42
Hello Everyone, Just to let you know Dad had his op this morning, he was in theartre about 2 hours, he was awake during the whole procedure, (brave man) listening to AC/DC. why I dont not know he doesn't even like them lol, but he requested it. by 12.30 he was back on his ward sat up in bed eating a salad, he has 2 small plasters on either side if his head, we have to wait about a week now for the results, thank you all again for your continued support, love, hugs, and understanding,

you are all very special people

Emma xxxx

dawny
28-06-08, 13:45
:bighug1: :bighug1: emma,

sending you a big hug mate.....:bighug1:

hope everything goes ok for your dad now..:flowers:


lots of love and cuddles coming your way:bighug1:


dawny

weeble40
28-06-08, 15:48
hey all Dad is coming home tomorrow, he has to go back next friday for his results, I cant wait to get him home safe, but I guess this is just the start of a journey we must face, but staying positive, things hopefully be ok, he would be overwelmed by the support you have all shown us on here, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that

Emma xxxxx

Rexzooly
28-06-08, 20:56
huggles Emma.
Glad you have him home soon and eveyone is here hoping the best for you and your family Huggles more.

pooh
28-06-08, 22:50
HI em

Glad to hear the op went ok keeping fingers crossed for the results thinkin of you

pooh xx

marie1974
28-06-08, 22:52
hiya and im so glad your dad is coming home you must be very happy. i have everything crossed that all will be ok and results will be all clear. hugs to u xxx

kristay1988
29-06-08, 16:33
hi just reading your post, my grandpa is going thru dimensia and problems with anxiety and such. I know it's been really hard for my mom and all her brothers and sisters and for everyone. Make sure you have someone close to you to talk to who understands and keep going, i know your dad would want the best for you!

Hope 2
30-06-08, 11:41
Hi Emma

Just to say you and yours are still in my thoughts and I wish your Dad all the very best for a speedy recovery.

Luv Hope xx

dawny
30-06-08, 12:23
emmma, thats brill news

love dawny

Granny Primark
30-06-08, 21:20
emma so pleased for you and your family:hugs:

EmmaJane
30-06-08, 22:24
Oh Emma,

That is really good, fingers crossed for next week. Thinking of you and your family

Lindalou64
02-07-08, 21:39
Hello Emma Sorry Hun Havent Been On Much Just Came Across This Glad To Hear Ya Dad Is Home And Yes You All Have To Try And Stay Positive Hun You Are Very Brave As Ya Dad I Wish You All The Best My Thoughts And Prayers Our With Yas.......keep In Touch.........linda Xxxxxxx

Southern_Belle
02-07-08, 23:47
Emma,

I'm so happy your Dad is home. Please know you are all still in my prayers.

Laura xxx

margaret911
03-07-08, 22:42
Hi Emma
So glad your dad is well enough to go home, hope he continues to progress.
love Mags xxxxx

Jaco45er
03-07-08, 23:13
Good news Emma, I hope all is well xx

weeble40
09-07-08, 09:17
Hi all

we have finally got the results and Im sorry to say its not good news, Dad has stage 4 cancer, the worse kind its deep in his brain, so its inoperable, they going to give him radio therepy but not sure if it will do any good, I havent dare ask How long, life is s**t eh?

Emma xxx


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marie1974
09-07-08, 09:56
oh emma thats so sad im so very sorry, its gonna be really hard but just make the time he got left really special for u all :hugs:

Hope 2
12-07-08, 18:13
Hello Emma :hugs:

Oh dear ........... I can't imagine how devastated you must feel it's so sad.
If I can help in any small way please just gimme a shout ok.

Love to u all
Hope xx

Dave777
12-07-08, 19:33
My thoughts are with you Emma, my folks are getting old and frail:hugs: xx

becca08
17-07-08, 16:29
Oh hunni

Im so sorry to hear your news, Im new to the site and was just reading your post hoping for a happy ending.

If you EVER need to talk or just blow off some steam email me and Im happy for you to cry on my sholder.

Words cant excpress how much i feel for you and your family right now.
:bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: :bighug1: x1000000

If u ever need to tak just drop me a line

weeble40
15-01-12, 02:51
i just found my old post and it brought back sooooooo many memories good and bad, the best been how long have we all been friends??? thankyou daddy for bringing us all together, ive met some wonderful people, and thankyou all each day for been here xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

jessicalittler79
15-01-12, 03:23
hi hun so sorry about your dad ,just wanted to give u a BIG huge hug :) thinking about u ,if u ever need to talk iam always here take care hun ,ill be praying for your family ,and yor dad

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opps sorry this must been a old post ,:)