noonoo
09-06-08, 13:05
I've been crying non stop ever since I got up this morning at 9:30am (when my alarm goes off) until now, 1pm in the afternoon.
I cried so hard last night out of the blue. I sat at the bottom of the stairs in this empty quiet house wondering why I was even crying. Recently I have been trying to get to the bottom of what's been causing my depression/anxiety, and the only thing that ever comes to mind is loneylness. I'd only just come back from having a chat with my next door neighbour aswell.
This past week (with the help of a friend giving advice, which has been good to have might I add) i've gone out and about, trying to enjoy myself. But there are always times in the day where I wish someone was with me to chat to and laugh with. It gets SO hard to deal with sometimes when I see people laughing together etc wishing it was me. I'm just sick of doing anything and everything on my own all the time and i'm only 20. Most weekends I want to go out but there's never anyone about to do anything with so I sit at home.
I feel like I ruin everything, like i'm a worthless person that nobody likes to be around, that nobody ever takes seriously, that i'm just a nobody. I constantly feel like i'm being annoying and I even get on my own nerves, and I always have to apologise to people for it just in case. I like talking a lot, especially at the moment.
I was talking to my grandma yesterday I think it was and she said I seem to be doing okay considering, but still i'm fighting the same battles everyday. Why is it always me that's left alone? Why am I always the one to be let down and shut out? I don't understand.
The only way i'm trying to make myself feel better is to help people when i'm out & about. My confidence has gone to an all time high to be honest. Like the other day I was in Wilkinsons looking for a card and an elderly couple were at the other end of the rack and I kept overhearing her say "can you see any sister cards anywhere" and then kept looking and looking until I saw them for myself, so I walked up to her and showed her where they were and she said "thankyou so much, you know you've just saved me from two hours of looking". It just makes me feel like maybe I do have a bit of 'worth'.
I'm really upset right now that I feel like this all the time. All I want right now is for someone to hug me tight and tell me everything is going to be okay. I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to be happy.
:weep:
xxxxxxx
I cried so hard last night out of the blue. I sat at the bottom of the stairs in this empty quiet house wondering why I was even crying. Recently I have been trying to get to the bottom of what's been causing my depression/anxiety, and the only thing that ever comes to mind is loneylness. I'd only just come back from having a chat with my next door neighbour aswell.
This past week (with the help of a friend giving advice, which has been good to have might I add) i've gone out and about, trying to enjoy myself. But there are always times in the day where I wish someone was with me to chat to and laugh with. It gets SO hard to deal with sometimes when I see people laughing together etc wishing it was me. I'm just sick of doing anything and everything on my own all the time and i'm only 20. Most weekends I want to go out but there's never anyone about to do anything with so I sit at home.
I feel like I ruin everything, like i'm a worthless person that nobody likes to be around, that nobody ever takes seriously, that i'm just a nobody. I constantly feel like i'm being annoying and I even get on my own nerves, and I always have to apologise to people for it just in case. I like talking a lot, especially at the moment.
I was talking to my grandma yesterday I think it was and she said I seem to be doing okay considering, but still i'm fighting the same battles everyday. Why is it always me that's left alone? Why am I always the one to be let down and shut out? I don't understand.
The only way i'm trying to make myself feel better is to help people when i'm out & about. My confidence has gone to an all time high to be honest. Like the other day I was in Wilkinsons looking for a card and an elderly couple were at the other end of the rack and I kept overhearing her say "can you see any sister cards anywhere" and then kept looking and looking until I saw them for myself, so I walked up to her and showed her where they were and she said "thankyou so much, you know you've just saved me from two hours of looking". It just makes me feel like maybe I do have a bit of 'worth'.
I'm really upset right now that I feel like this all the time. All I want right now is for someone to hug me tight and tell me everything is going to be okay. I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to be happy.
:weep:
xxxxxxx