christiane
07-08-08, 16:21
Hi
For the past 8 months I have suffered from penis envy. Its has become so bad that I am finding it difficult to leave the house or even watch tv. It started 3months after my long term boy-friend left me. I thought we had a great loving relationship but one day I came home to find a note saying "sorry I cant do this anymore"
He had left me for another man!!!
In all that time I had no idea because he was a great lover and never showed any signs of being gay. He would always buy all the mens mags and crack jokes with his mates, like most men do. After he left I found lots of male gay porn and on our pc I he had been on various gay sites.
I became obsessed with looking at the sites and looking at the mags wondering why why why! Then when I was out I found myself staring at mens private areas.
Now all I want is a penis of my own!!!
Oh I know how strange that seems but I dont want to be a man but I cant help wondering "maybe if I had a penis" he would want me back. I made an appointment at my doctors but she just gave me soroxat for my anxiety and booked me in to see a psychologist but am not mad and I resent her thinking I am.
6 weeks a go I sent away for a strap on and would look at myself in the mirror. I would just stand there for hours looking at myself naked and I felt good. For the first time in nearly 7 months I smiled but at the same time I was crying. I cant tell my friends about this or my mum. My obsession has now got so bad that I own 5 strap ons and spend all my time looking at male gay porn. I have lost my job I have become isolated from family and friends and my credit cards bills are killing me.
I tried phoning a crisis helpline but each time I phoned a guy would answer and I hung up, feeling jealous because he had the one thing I didnt.
When will this end
when will I feel normal again
My friend who is on this site says people can help but I never told them what my obsession is.
Its got to the stage where I am thinking of having an operation but I still want to be a female. I am just so confused
christine
For the past 8 months I have suffered from penis envy. Its has become so bad that I am finding it difficult to leave the house or even watch tv. It started 3months after my long term boy-friend left me. I thought we had a great loving relationship but one day I came home to find a note saying "sorry I cant do this anymore"
He had left me for another man!!!
In all that time I had no idea because he was a great lover and never showed any signs of being gay. He would always buy all the mens mags and crack jokes with his mates, like most men do. After he left I found lots of male gay porn and on our pc I he had been on various gay sites.
I became obsessed with looking at the sites and looking at the mags wondering why why why! Then when I was out I found myself staring at mens private areas.
Now all I want is a penis of my own!!!
Oh I know how strange that seems but I dont want to be a man but I cant help wondering "maybe if I had a penis" he would want me back. I made an appointment at my doctors but she just gave me soroxat for my anxiety and booked me in to see a psychologist but am not mad and I resent her thinking I am.
6 weeks a go I sent away for a strap on and would look at myself in the mirror. I would just stand there for hours looking at myself naked and I felt good. For the first time in nearly 7 months I smiled but at the same time I was crying. I cant tell my friends about this or my mum. My obsession has now got so bad that I own 5 strap ons and spend all my time looking at male gay porn. I have lost my job I have become isolated from family and friends and my credit cards bills are killing me.
I tried phoning a crisis helpline but each time I phoned a guy would answer and I hung up, feeling jealous because he had the one thing I didnt.
When will this end
when will I feel normal again
My friend who is on this site says people can help but I never told them what my obsession is.
Its got to the stage where I am thinking of having an operation but I still want to be a female. I am just so confused
christine