janeybaby25
14-09-08, 00:44
sorry but this has really upset me & I can't work out if I am in the wrong or not...
My boyfriends sister in law asked us to baby sit ages ago for her new son on the 18th of sept & we haven't see him for a few weeks as one week they were on hol, the week after we were then for past 2 weeks just been busy. Anyway, I have txted her a few times to ask when we could see him & she hasn't replied. He was poorly last week & i txted to ask how he was & just got an arsey message saying I hadn't seen him in 5 weeks... anyway, I txted her tonight to say are we still babysitting him & she said no cos we hadn't seen him for a few weeks he might not settle with us. So I said, well let us know when we can come over (as they live a good half hr drive away) she sent one back saying we didn't need an appointment so I said, well I don't know when he is in bed or if you will be out & she said well he might be asleep when you come anyway so I cant say when is best, so I thought ok, make it simple... I asked, is a week night or a weekend best & she said well im not in most days & he is in bed for 8! Why is she making it so hard for us to see him? then she said well we were at in laws today, you could have come there (we had on idea they were there or going) so i asked let us know when you are next there so we can come over so she said well you will have to get james (my boyfriend) to call everyday cos i will forget. Am I in the wrong here or is it me & she is making it so difficult? I have been so upset tonight. To be honest I couldn't care less how she acts or what she thinks of me, but she is very clever & I don't want her to make out to my boyfriends parents that we don't want to see his nephew cos we do, she is making it so damm hard!!!! we are off on hol with them all in 3 weeks & I am dreading it. She is a very difficult person anyway, she is horrible to her husband (my blokes bro) & tells him off for how he knocks on the door or if he puts his glass down in the wrong place when we go out for a meal & then last yr, I was making her wedding invites & she said didn't need them doing until August, then in May I had heart surgery & 2 weeks after my op she said she needed them doing asap!!!! I couldn't even bathe myself let alone make wedding invites. So I told her if she wanted them, she could do them herself, she soon shut up then! But when I did do them, I got no simple thank you or anything. Sorry, I feel like I have to explain the type of person she is. My boyfriend says I know what she is like so I shouldn't get upset but I can't help it. Been in tears tonight. :(
My boyfriends sister in law asked us to baby sit ages ago for her new son on the 18th of sept & we haven't see him for a few weeks as one week they were on hol, the week after we were then for past 2 weeks just been busy. Anyway, I have txted her a few times to ask when we could see him & she hasn't replied. He was poorly last week & i txted to ask how he was & just got an arsey message saying I hadn't seen him in 5 weeks... anyway, I txted her tonight to say are we still babysitting him & she said no cos we hadn't seen him for a few weeks he might not settle with us. So I said, well let us know when we can come over (as they live a good half hr drive away) she sent one back saying we didn't need an appointment so I said, well I don't know when he is in bed or if you will be out & she said well he might be asleep when you come anyway so I cant say when is best, so I thought ok, make it simple... I asked, is a week night or a weekend best & she said well im not in most days & he is in bed for 8! Why is she making it so hard for us to see him? then she said well we were at in laws today, you could have come there (we had on idea they were there or going) so i asked let us know when you are next there so we can come over so she said well you will have to get james (my boyfriend) to call everyday cos i will forget. Am I in the wrong here or is it me & she is making it so difficult? I have been so upset tonight. To be honest I couldn't care less how she acts or what she thinks of me, but she is very clever & I don't want her to make out to my boyfriends parents that we don't want to see his nephew cos we do, she is making it so damm hard!!!! we are off on hol with them all in 3 weeks & I am dreading it. She is a very difficult person anyway, she is horrible to her husband (my blokes bro) & tells him off for how he knocks on the door or if he puts his glass down in the wrong place when we go out for a meal & then last yr, I was making her wedding invites & she said didn't need them doing until August, then in May I had heart surgery & 2 weeks after my op she said she needed them doing asap!!!! I couldn't even bathe myself let alone make wedding invites. So I told her if she wanted them, she could do them herself, she soon shut up then! But when I did do them, I got no simple thank you or anything. Sorry, I feel like I have to explain the type of person she is. My boyfriend says I know what she is like so I shouldn't get upset but I can't help it. Been in tears tonight. :(