belle
16-09-08, 18:13
I don't know where to put this thread, so if it's in the wrong place, please move it :)
So yeah, i have just had a CBT session, the first in about 5 weeks. Anyway, he dropped the bombshell that I am possibly one of the very few in his 30 year career that hasn't made any progress.
Clearly this has made me feel like a sack of sh*t. I know i am not very good at this recovery business, but being told it, is not something you want to hear.
I just cannot do it. I cannot get past any of these feelings. I feel them, i avoid them. I have tried my fricking hardest over the 10 years of being agoraphobic to recover, but i am just not able to do it.
I've done 'baby steps', i've done 'exposure'. I've been exposing myself to the school run for FIVE years, yet i still feel panicky! HOW MUCH EXPOSING does it take to feel comfortable??? Five years and still no better, that's a sign that things just don't happen for me.
Do i curl up in a ball and just give up, 'cause that is exactly what i want to do right now. I am a big, fat, failure, who is undoubtedly destined to a life of misery and imprisonment.
I see NO WAY OUT.
So yeah, i have just had a CBT session, the first in about 5 weeks. Anyway, he dropped the bombshell that I am possibly one of the very few in his 30 year career that hasn't made any progress.
Clearly this has made me feel like a sack of sh*t. I know i am not very good at this recovery business, but being told it, is not something you want to hear.
I just cannot do it. I cannot get past any of these feelings. I feel them, i avoid them. I have tried my fricking hardest over the 10 years of being agoraphobic to recover, but i am just not able to do it.
I've done 'baby steps', i've done 'exposure'. I've been exposing myself to the school run for FIVE years, yet i still feel panicky! HOW MUCH EXPOSING does it take to feel comfortable??? Five years and still no better, that's a sign that things just don't happen for me.
Do i curl up in a ball and just give up, 'cause that is exactly what i want to do right now. I am a big, fat, failure, who is undoubtedly destined to a life of misery and imprisonment.
I see NO WAY OUT.