bluesparkle
07-06-05, 09:19
hi...
i wondered if anyone could give me some advice...
i have always been a socialable person but seem to be alone now...
when i lived in weymouth i had many firends and always had people in and out of my house even after i was divorced... but since moving here 7 yrs ago i have gradually lost touch and as i have been struggling with my problems have sudenly found that i am alone... i have a couple of friends but they have partners or are busy with their lives and now i feel ready to be sociable again but i just dont know how(sounds a bit daft doesnt it) im not sure what to do to make the first step... the kids are older now so i dont have the interaction of playschool etc and meeting people there.
for a while i would date men but it didnt work out and i have realised that that is probably not the best solution as its company i want .
i dont work at the moment although i do intend to in the not to distant future as i am getting stronger all the time but i do get so sad when im alone and it is driving me mad ...
i belong to st john ambulance but that is where my ex partner goes so i find it difficult to go to the social events there and i would like to give it up soon but i feel i need to fill this gap i have in my life.
i chat to people on here which is great but i need people around me.
thanks for listening
rach
i wondered if anyone could give me some advice...
i have always been a socialable person but seem to be alone now...
when i lived in weymouth i had many firends and always had people in and out of my house even after i was divorced... but since moving here 7 yrs ago i have gradually lost touch and as i have been struggling with my problems have sudenly found that i am alone... i have a couple of friends but they have partners or are busy with their lives and now i feel ready to be sociable again but i just dont know how(sounds a bit daft doesnt it) im not sure what to do to make the first step... the kids are older now so i dont have the interaction of playschool etc and meeting people there.
for a while i would date men but it didnt work out and i have realised that that is probably not the best solution as its company i want .
i dont work at the moment although i do intend to in the not to distant future as i am getting stronger all the time but i do get so sad when im alone and it is driving me mad ...
i belong to st john ambulance but that is where my ex partner goes so i find it difficult to go to the social events there and i would like to give it up soon but i feel i need to fill this gap i have in my life.
i chat to people on here which is great but i need people around me.
thanks for listening
rach