Bond
30-10-08, 16:08
Hey all..
I just can’t take this feeling anymore. I am always worried my gf will loose feelings for me and eventually break up with me. I've been trying for the past 6 months to understand why I do this as I do this with every relationship I have. Everything is good right until the title comes or we are official. Then I start to over analyze EVERYTHING!!..Voice tone, choice of words, actions, mannerisms, body language etc.. It’s like my mind is made up already "she’s lost feelings for me" and now im only searching for evidence to prove my fear.
I’m with a girl now and I've been doing this already and we've had talks about it but I can tell she’s getting fed up with this insecurity and my constant mood shifts of worry and asking for constant reassurance from me.
I just don’t know what to do anymore, I think she will eventually leave me because of this and I feel like she already starting to pull away, of course this adds credence to my fear and thoughts of her feelings...
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I just can’t take this feeling anymore. I am always worried my gf will loose feelings for me and eventually break up with me. I've been trying for the past 6 months to understand why I do this as I do this with every relationship I have. Everything is good right until the title comes or we are official. Then I start to over analyze EVERYTHING!!..Voice tone, choice of words, actions, mannerisms, body language etc.. It’s like my mind is made up already "she’s lost feelings for me" and now im only searching for evidence to prove my fear.
I’m with a girl now and I've been doing this already and we've had talks about it but I can tell she’s getting fed up with this insecurity and my constant mood shifts of worry and asking for constant reassurance from me.
I just don’t know what to do anymore, I think she will eventually leave me because of this and I feel like she already starting to pull away, of course this adds credence to my fear and thoughts of her feelings...
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