bluesparkle
29-06-05, 13:38
well i wasnt sure where to put this as its kind of a plea for help but in a strange way it is also a personal success story...
not sure where to start... and appolagise now as this may be a bit long winded ...
as some of you know i have been having problems with my son(15yrs)
yesterday he was accused of stealing some money from a `friends` house...
but it all seems a bit odd... as she has lots of kids too and her younger ones were caught spending money on way to school.. anyway...
this is an awful thing to admit but i am not 100% sure either way as to weather it was tom or not...but i checked him and his bag when he got in...nothing!!!(it was quite a substantial ammount not easily got rid of).
he says he didnt do it and even came to the police station with me this morning which im not sure he would have done if he was guilty...as he is not very brave at the best of times.
i asked the family concerned to contact the police ...last night they said they couldnt get an answer!!! and today she said they were busy...but they did have some record of it...but she has apparently said she doesnt want to persue it and has cancelled the report of theft but is telling me she has done no such thing...(confused... i know i am!) i was totally in agreement with her contacting them as i want to prove my sons innocense or get him the right help if he did do it... tom does some strange things when things in his life are not quite right...
i have retuned the money to the person concerned...obviously my money but with a note to say when this is sorted we will sort that bit out..think that was against my better judgement now but its done.
she accused tom straight away yesterday... i have been in touch with school who seem to be taking this quite seriously and have been quite nice to me... but in the mean time tom has recieved some disturbing texts so is scared to go into school tomorrow ... (he has been bullied in the past)
i think it has dawned on me that i may never be able to prove what has happened ... and i know the family will give us grief... and the boys will not be good to tom at school...
he seems fairly calm and ive been honest about everything to him... we are also waiting for a counsellor but that could take ages...
ok sorry about all that but i wanted to tell someone and ive just lost my closest mate as it was her ...and the way she spoke to me yesterday there was just no need...
does anyone know where i can get some extra help in what else i can do to help my son...?
oh and the success part (thats sounds awful at a time like this) but i havnt paniced yet... ive cried alot and shook from anger etc but no attack...
anyway thank you so much for letting me tell you on here...
rach
not sure where to start... and appolagise now as this may be a bit long winded ...
as some of you know i have been having problems with my son(15yrs)
yesterday he was accused of stealing some money from a `friends` house...
but it all seems a bit odd... as she has lots of kids too and her younger ones were caught spending money on way to school.. anyway...
this is an awful thing to admit but i am not 100% sure either way as to weather it was tom or not...but i checked him and his bag when he got in...nothing!!!(it was quite a substantial ammount not easily got rid of).
he says he didnt do it and even came to the police station with me this morning which im not sure he would have done if he was guilty...as he is not very brave at the best of times.
i asked the family concerned to contact the police ...last night they said they couldnt get an answer!!! and today she said they were busy...but they did have some record of it...but she has apparently said she doesnt want to persue it and has cancelled the report of theft but is telling me she has done no such thing...(confused... i know i am!) i was totally in agreement with her contacting them as i want to prove my sons innocense or get him the right help if he did do it... tom does some strange things when things in his life are not quite right...
i have retuned the money to the person concerned...obviously my money but with a note to say when this is sorted we will sort that bit out..think that was against my better judgement now but its done.
she accused tom straight away yesterday... i have been in touch with school who seem to be taking this quite seriously and have been quite nice to me... but in the mean time tom has recieved some disturbing texts so is scared to go into school tomorrow ... (he has been bullied in the past)
i think it has dawned on me that i may never be able to prove what has happened ... and i know the family will give us grief... and the boys will not be good to tom at school...
he seems fairly calm and ive been honest about everything to him... we are also waiting for a counsellor but that could take ages...
ok sorry about all that but i wanted to tell someone and ive just lost my closest mate as it was her ...and the way she spoke to me yesterday there was just no need...
does anyone know where i can get some extra help in what else i can do to help my son...?
oh and the success part (thats sounds awful at a time like this) but i havnt paniced yet... ive cried alot and shook from anger etc but no attack...
anyway thank you so much for letting me tell you on here...
rach