Chelle1
31-12-08, 21:54
Hi everyone,
I am feeling really sorry for myself tonight, We (me and my partner) dropped the kids off earlier so that we could go and celebrate new years eve together on our own. We were supposed to be going to a friends party, She lives in a flat on the 10th floor of a tower block.
I was fine all day and was looking froward to it I have been agoraphobic for a few months (im not house bound - i can go out to shops with my partner or mom and i manage to get the children to school and have been getting better the last month - going to the local shop alone). We got there at about 8.30 and when i got outside suddenly realised (all in 2 seconds) that i had to go in a lift for 9 floors and walk the top flight of stairs to the flat, then when in the flat if i panicked i would have to get out and couldnt just walk out the back door or something for a minute. then i imagined if i panicked that much and felt i couldnt get out fast i would jump off the balcony - which meant i would die. I burst out crying and told my partner i couldnt do it, i felt really stupid, my partner just sort of huffed and asked why then said he couldnt be bothered with this tonight and said we would go home. I didnt argue and so we have come home, i feel really stupid and that i have failed myself and spoilt my partners night (and his life) and then i start to think he will leave me for someone who isnt so stupid! I know he loves me, he tells me everyday and he accepts that im agoraphobic but he doesnt understand and i know it annoys him he says it doesnt but i know it does. I feel like i just wreck everything, and feels useless.
As i said i am feeling really sorry for myself right now and will be staying in to see the new year now with a boyfriend i have made miserable. I said he could go and meet his mates but he wont leave me, I feel so guilty.
I hate panic disorder and probably shouldnt say it but i would probably have more of a life and get about easier and have more understanding if i had 1 leg missing or something.
Anyway, Happy New Year
Hope you all feel well in 2009!
I am feeling really sorry for myself tonight, We (me and my partner) dropped the kids off earlier so that we could go and celebrate new years eve together on our own. We were supposed to be going to a friends party, She lives in a flat on the 10th floor of a tower block.
I was fine all day and was looking froward to it I have been agoraphobic for a few months (im not house bound - i can go out to shops with my partner or mom and i manage to get the children to school and have been getting better the last month - going to the local shop alone). We got there at about 8.30 and when i got outside suddenly realised (all in 2 seconds) that i had to go in a lift for 9 floors and walk the top flight of stairs to the flat, then when in the flat if i panicked i would have to get out and couldnt just walk out the back door or something for a minute. then i imagined if i panicked that much and felt i couldnt get out fast i would jump off the balcony - which meant i would die. I burst out crying and told my partner i couldnt do it, i felt really stupid, my partner just sort of huffed and asked why then said he couldnt be bothered with this tonight and said we would go home. I didnt argue and so we have come home, i feel really stupid and that i have failed myself and spoilt my partners night (and his life) and then i start to think he will leave me for someone who isnt so stupid! I know he loves me, he tells me everyday and he accepts that im agoraphobic but he doesnt understand and i know it annoys him he says it doesnt but i know it does. I feel like i just wreck everything, and feels useless.
As i said i am feeling really sorry for myself right now and will be staying in to see the new year now with a boyfriend i have made miserable. I said he could go and meet his mates but he wont leave me, I feel so guilty.
I hate panic disorder and probably shouldnt say it but i would probably have more of a life and get about easier and have more understanding if i had 1 leg missing or something.
Anyway, Happy New Year
Hope you all feel well in 2009!