CABelieve13
03-01-09, 01:05
well i shouldnt say that. My dad is very understanding. He knows just what to say, and no, he doesnt baby me when i am having a panic attack. Sorry, thats what my mom says.
My mom on the other hand, she just.....ugh.
My relationship with my mom has become strained because of my anxiety. She would get so frusterated when i was have my anxiety attacks, but instead of trying to calm me down, she screamed at me for hours until i basically stopped thinking about how i felt, and just how much i disliked her.
Now i dont tell her anything. My anxiety attacks are off how i feel (as in health wise). Im so afraid of being sick, i can even create an illness when i am nervous from having to go to school, a test, or whatever. so if i feel sick, and cant stop thinking about it, and go into anxiety attack, i go straight to my dad. I dont want to have her yelling at me. But of course my dad tells my mom and she calls me up and basically says get over yourself.
She has said some very hurtful things while im having a panic/anxiety attacks.
I have really bad emetrophobia, and i remember that when i had my worst panic attacks a couple years ago, she used to threaten my by saying "Ill go get the medicene that will make you throw up so you can get it done and over with" trying to threaten me so i would stop having my panic/anxiety attack.
Does anyone else have this problem? What am i supposed to do? Do i talk to her when im anxious, even though i know im just going to get scolded? help please.
My mom on the other hand, she just.....ugh.
My relationship with my mom has become strained because of my anxiety. She would get so frusterated when i was have my anxiety attacks, but instead of trying to calm me down, she screamed at me for hours until i basically stopped thinking about how i felt, and just how much i disliked her.
Now i dont tell her anything. My anxiety attacks are off how i feel (as in health wise). Im so afraid of being sick, i can even create an illness when i am nervous from having to go to school, a test, or whatever. so if i feel sick, and cant stop thinking about it, and go into anxiety attack, i go straight to my dad. I dont want to have her yelling at me. But of course my dad tells my mom and she calls me up and basically says get over yourself.
She has said some very hurtful things while im having a panic/anxiety attacks.
I have really bad emetrophobia, and i remember that when i had my worst panic attacks a couple years ago, she used to threaten my by saying "Ill go get the medicene that will make you throw up so you can get it done and over with" trying to threaten me so i would stop having my panic/anxiety attack.
Does anyone else have this problem? What am i supposed to do? Do i talk to her when im anxious, even though i know im just going to get scolded? help please.