ricric
05-01-09, 23:45
My Anxiety is being exaserbated again!! here is the story!!
Step mom from hell!
I think my step mom is manipulating me and my sister against my dad!
For years my dad and I have had a fragile relationship, where my sister and my dad have had a better relationship.
My stepmom has children one is under 6 and lives with their dad.
My step mom first asked my wife over my sister to be a bridesmaid, it was the way she went about it. she and my dad went out for dinner and it was announced to us that they were getting married. My sister said so am I gonna BE Bridesmaid jokingly but she shot her down coldly NO! And as my sister was in bits she said to my wife would you like to do it? My wife declined politely out of courtesy to my sister.
Let me get this right, My sister has been going on for the last 18 months saying that the 'stepmom' has had it in for her, but I never really believed her, as the step mom always praised my sister when I was round, but my sister said she is very subtle making sly comments every now and again. My sister gets very upset about this.
My dad is extremely lazy he wont make an effort, he could nt even be arsed to propose he had to be filled with booze and pressured into it. He never phones either my sister or myself apart from special occassions etc etc when we will get a text of him and his missus. he wont buy birthday or Xmas prezzies for us he leaves it down to the 'step mom'
He never did anything for the wedding preparations, and me and my sister was left in the dark over wedding preparations.
Now my dad is alright, apart from he doesnt seem to care about mine or my sisters feelings.
Now my sister has been doing really well trying to lose weight, when the step mom discovered how much she did weigh she said that was disgusting.
And some of the gifts she has recieved of her have been slightly a piss take for instance my sister asked my dad to look out for some fancy designer handbag for her when he went away Duty free.
My step mom bought her a bag and claimed to my dad and my sister it was designer however it was plumped with newspaper. and put in a harvey nicholls bag. And she also has been bought tee towels etc .....ok, so many many occassions has my sister been in tears from some of the terrible gifts she has bought her.
Well this Christmas she went a little to far in my eyes, and I felt the wrath from her.
First she bought my 5 month old son a nice jumper it had a J on for his name we presumed, but the step mom said oh it wasnt originally bought for him (she has a grandson called Jack)
And then imagine my horror when I open my present to myself and my wife and I get some Towels some frickin towels..
and imagine my horror when someone said 'do you think it could be an excess wedding present they didnt want'. So I have that on my mind now!!
If I confront her or my dad, I will be labbelled as causing trouble, which as Im s**t at asserting myself I probably would.
I think Im in a lose lose situation, Im jst getting myself worked up about it, and I needed to vent.
Revenge is on my mind now, my dads birthday is next week, and I have a spare towel rail that doesnt fit in my bathroom which I was going to give him, in the hope that it would shock him into an apology or from her.
Should I right a letter telling them how much I was hurt buy everything???
TIA:)
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Step mom from hell!
I think my step mom is manipulating me and my sister against my dad!
For years my dad and I have had a fragile relationship, where my sister and my dad have had a better relationship.
My stepmom has children one is under 6 and lives with their dad.
My step mom first asked my wife over my sister to be a bridesmaid, it was the way she went about it. she and my dad went out for dinner and it was announced to us that they were getting married. My sister said so am I gonna BE Bridesmaid jokingly but she shot her down coldly NO! And as my sister was in bits she said to my wife would you like to do it? My wife declined politely out of courtesy to my sister.
Let me get this right, My sister has been going on for the last 18 months saying that the 'stepmom' has had it in for her, but I never really believed her, as the step mom always praised my sister when I was round, but my sister said she is very subtle making sly comments every now and again. My sister gets very upset about this.
My dad is extremely lazy he wont make an effort, he could nt even be arsed to propose he had to be filled with booze and pressured into it. He never phones either my sister or myself apart from special occassions etc etc when we will get a text of him and his missus. he wont buy birthday or Xmas prezzies for us he leaves it down to the 'step mom'
He never did anything for the wedding preparations, and me and my sister was left in the dark over wedding preparations.
Now my dad is alright, apart from he doesnt seem to care about mine or my sisters feelings.
Now my sister has been doing really well trying to lose weight, when the step mom discovered how much she did weigh she said that was disgusting.
And some of the gifts she has recieved of her have been slightly a piss take for instance my sister asked my dad to look out for some fancy designer handbag for her when he went away Duty free.
My step mom bought her a bag and claimed to my dad and my sister it was designer however it was plumped with newspaper. and put in a harvey nicholls bag. And she also has been bought tee towels etc .....ok, so many many occassions has my sister been in tears from some of the terrible gifts she has bought her.
Well this Christmas she went a little to far in my eyes, and I felt the wrath from her.
First she bought my 5 month old son a nice jumper it had a J on for his name we presumed, but the step mom said oh it wasnt originally bought for him (she has a grandson called Jack)
And then imagine my horror when I open my present to myself and my wife and I get some Towels some frickin towels..
and imagine my horror when someone said 'do you think it could be an excess wedding present they didnt want'. So I have that on my mind now!!
If I confront her or my dad, I will be labbelled as causing trouble, which as Im s**t at asserting myself I probably would.
I think Im in a lose lose situation, Im jst getting myself worked up about it, and I needed to vent.
Revenge is on my mind now, my dads birthday is next week, and I have a spare towel rail that doesnt fit in my bathroom which I was going to give him, in the hope that it would shock him into an apology or from her.
Should I right a letter telling them how much I was hurt buy everything???
TIA:)
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