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vinmicrosoft
16-01-09, 08:22
Hello Friend.
I am 31 years old male. I have stammering problem since childhood.
Now my whole life is going worst. I become a very shy person now. I am not attending any social function where i have to be in touch with people and talk with them. Also i am still single because i dont have dare to talk with girl and
propose her. :huh: . I cant go for good jobs as there i want to speak more and more.
I took speech therapy but not work
i am very frustrated. someday i will kill myself :weep:

Please please someone help me

sorry for my bad english
Vin

Utility
25-01-09, 13:07
Hi,

Does anxiety build up when you are talking to people and make your situation worse. The reason I ask is because it may a case of approaching it from an easing the anxiety point of view rather than a speech therapy way because you said that this did not help.

vinmicrosoft
25-01-09, 18:38
Thanks for reply my friend.
Yes I am feeling anxiety and fear before speaking.

Anxious_gal
25-01-09, 21:34
http://news.sky.com/skynews/Home/Sky-News-Archive/Article/20080641310406

http://www.stammering.org/heidi4.html

Utility
25-01-09, 23:30
Hi

I think if you approach your issue from the point of view of getting control of anxiety then things might not be so bad. It won't happen over night but I am sure it will help in your situation.

You will find lots of information on this site on how to cope with anxiety and how to try and relax in tense situations. Have a look and give them a try. I am sure they will only have positive results.