lesleya
27-01-09, 21:45
I had my grievance investigation meeting at work a week past friday, and my husband came with me to give me some moral support.
Im so pleased he did because at least ive got a witness to what i actually did say because the notes the HR manager took are so incomplete you would not believe...
She has totally misconstrewed some of my answers, and if i was daft enough to sign the statement as it stands i would be right in the preverbial 'tish'...if you pardon the expression!!
My hubby read it when he came in from work tonight and even he said that they changed my answers around in such a way that he said he thinks they are trying to stitch me up.
But why?:weep: :weep: :weep:
Im really upset over this letter......yes i know i can have these notes amended but im thinking is he right?...are they trying to stitch me up?
I only went ahead with this grievance because my ops manager intimated that if i continued to be off sick with stress/anxiety over this matter and i wasnt seen to be proactive...not do anything constructive to put the matter right, then i could go down the disciplinary path myself??
I think im being used as a scapegoat to get rid of this other woman...so why do i get the feeling im being tricked?....or am i being oversensitive??
All of this is really waring me down now and im finding it really hard to cope with..and i feel like im at snapping point:weep::weep::weep:
Im so pleased he did because at least ive got a witness to what i actually did say because the notes the HR manager took are so incomplete you would not believe...
She has totally misconstrewed some of my answers, and if i was daft enough to sign the statement as it stands i would be right in the preverbial 'tish'...if you pardon the expression!!
My hubby read it when he came in from work tonight and even he said that they changed my answers around in such a way that he said he thinks they are trying to stitch me up.
But why?:weep: :weep: :weep:
Im really upset over this letter......yes i know i can have these notes amended but im thinking is he right?...are they trying to stitch me up?
I only went ahead with this grievance because my ops manager intimated that if i continued to be off sick with stress/anxiety over this matter and i wasnt seen to be proactive...not do anything constructive to put the matter right, then i could go down the disciplinary path myself??
I think im being used as a scapegoat to get rid of this other woman...so why do i get the feeling im being tricked?....or am i being oversensitive??
All of this is really waring me down now and im finding it really hard to cope with..and i feel like im at snapping point:weep::weep::weep: