Peru83
12-07-05, 12:04
My partner has lost his job this time, makes a change from him walking out. I have been up since 6am looking for jobs for him and sorting out the money ie phoning the jobcentre and the housing for benefits. My partner has an interview at the jobcentre on Thursday and they said if we are awarded then it will be another two weeks before we get money!!!
I know that we will get by, we always do, but I'm just so hacked off at having to do this again!!!
I am feeling very numb at the moment, I just want to cry but I can't. I think I'm just too angry. Why does my partner have to be soo hopless? Why can't he just get a job and stick it? Most men trip over themselfs to provide for their kids, not mine though. You know who he reminds me on sometimes, Keith Millar from Eastenders but intstead of being elliterate he's just plain lazy.
Is there something wrong with him that I am missing, he's moody, grumpy, agressive, tired constantly, has no time for his kids or me for that matter. He does sometimes smoke cannabis but not as much as he used to.
I just don't know anymore, what do you guys think;
Should I give him yet another chance and see how things go?
Or just accept that he's just not going to be of any help and tell him where to go?
I need an unbiast opinion becuase if I ask my family then I know what their answer will be as they hate him.
"Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most!"
I know that we will get by, we always do, but I'm just so hacked off at having to do this again!!!
I am feeling very numb at the moment, I just want to cry but I can't. I think I'm just too angry. Why does my partner have to be soo hopless? Why can't he just get a job and stick it? Most men trip over themselfs to provide for their kids, not mine though. You know who he reminds me on sometimes, Keith Millar from Eastenders but intstead of being elliterate he's just plain lazy.
Is there something wrong with him that I am missing, he's moody, grumpy, agressive, tired constantly, has no time for his kids or me for that matter. He does sometimes smoke cannabis but not as much as he used to.
I just don't know anymore, what do you guys think;
Should I give him yet another chance and see how things go?
Or just accept that he's just not going to be of any help and tell him where to go?
I need an unbiast opinion becuase if I ask my family then I know what their answer will be as they hate him.
"Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most!"