Noir
30-01-09, 02:25
Hiya
Im new to the site and new to panic attacks and would be grateful of some help, understanding.
I have read up on various internet sites but felt speaking to people directly would be more effective.
I am sorry for the war and peace but this is the situation
I met an amazing man two months ago , he is early 30s , has 3 children of whom he sees of weekends, he has also done time - about 5/6 years ago for 15months - - dont now if this help to understand situation but.....
I didnt know he had this condition, so for the last couple of weeks i have been suggesting we go out to new bars/resturant , theatre , pictures ect and he has seemed reluctant and says why cant we just get a takeaway and watch a dvd at home it doesnt matter what we do aslong as we are together - - but i feel nites in are nice but for a new couples its all about dating goin out spendin time learnin about each other , but he just hasent seemed intrested
Also he doesnt seem intrested in me sexual he wont randomly kiss or hug me and has not made a move to take things further despite staying over a couple times , also he is tired/exhausted come 11pm/12am even after a quiet relaxin day -- an he doesnt work
I have since found out he is on fluoxetine which from reading the internet explain his ocd , like triple checkin taps,doors ect before leaving the house or going to bed
I just need someone to put into simple everyday words for me the side effects of panic attacks and what i can do to help , is what iv said down to panic attacks or???
I just need help/ideas on get him out the house doin more with me an to also make him him enjoy life more by going to bars/clubs/resturants or even a holiday , as hes never even been to London let alone abroad
Any help is appricated an thanks for listening
:)
Im new to the site and new to panic attacks and would be grateful of some help, understanding.
I have read up on various internet sites but felt speaking to people directly would be more effective.
I am sorry for the war and peace but this is the situation
I met an amazing man two months ago , he is early 30s , has 3 children of whom he sees of weekends, he has also done time - about 5/6 years ago for 15months - - dont now if this help to understand situation but.....
I didnt know he had this condition, so for the last couple of weeks i have been suggesting we go out to new bars/resturant , theatre , pictures ect and he has seemed reluctant and says why cant we just get a takeaway and watch a dvd at home it doesnt matter what we do aslong as we are together - - but i feel nites in are nice but for a new couples its all about dating goin out spendin time learnin about each other , but he just hasent seemed intrested
Also he doesnt seem intrested in me sexual he wont randomly kiss or hug me and has not made a move to take things further despite staying over a couple times , also he is tired/exhausted come 11pm/12am even after a quiet relaxin day -- an he doesnt work
I have since found out he is on fluoxetine which from reading the internet explain his ocd , like triple checkin taps,doors ect before leaving the house or going to bed
I just need someone to put into simple everyday words for me the side effects of panic attacks and what i can do to help , is what iv said down to panic attacks or???
I just need help/ideas on get him out the house doin more with me an to also make him him enjoy life more by going to bars/clubs/resturants or even a holiday , as hes never even been to London let alone abroad
Any help is appricated an thanks for listening
:)