Bill
25-02-09, 05:13
I'm quite sure not everyone will agree with this but...
I feel there are 2 types to this.
There is the type of person who only wants to take from others for their own benefit to fill their needs and there are those who enjoy feeling needed so that they can do the reverse and give to others to fill the other persons needs. Both types feel the need to feel needed.
The former is selfish for only taking without ever giving. The latter often doesn't care about themselves so can't be selfish.
If we only think of ourselves and only care about ourselves then how will others care about us when we never ask for help for fear of appearing needy?
If we create barriers to keep others out, won't we lead lonely lives, happy loving ourselves but alone?
Personally, the person I find most attractive is the needy person who cries out for help because they are the people who need and accept love and compassion without suspicion.
Of course it's wrong to always demand from another because then they are selfish and become a burden but those in need of support should never be made to feel a burden for asking for help.
I think it would be a very uncaring world if we all felt complete with our own company because we were too afraid to need from or give to others.:hugs:
What more could make a man feel more complete than a woman "needing" him for all the love he can give?..........
My sunshine
With one thought of her smile within my mind,
My sweet love, how she makes the sun shine,
Her loveliness so warm and true,
Brightly shining in the sky so blue,
Her skin flushed pink as a summers rose,
Glowing reassuringly she heals all woes,
Petals so glossy glistening with dew,
She is a wonder so treasured of so few,
Sitting gently in my palm, so soft, so perfect,
Forever admired, comforted and protected,
A rose, so pristine, so kind, a pleasure to hold,
Bringing warmth within when the weather’s so cold,
An angel with comforting wings,
With a voice that joyfully sings,
A precious woman, so special where she lays,
She makes me feel complete in every way.:hugs:
I feel there are 2 types to this.
There is the type of person who only wants to take from others for their own benefit to fill their needs and there are those who enjoy feeling needed so that they can do the reverse and give to others to fill the other persons needs. Both types feel the need to feel needed.
The former is selfish for only taking without ever giving. The latter often doesn't care about themselves so can't be selfish.
If we only think of ourselves and only care about ourselves then how will others care about us when we never ask for help for fear of appearing needy?
If we create barriers to keep others out, won't we lead lonely lives, happy loving ourselves but alone?
Personally, the person I find most attractive is the needy person who cries out for help because they are the people who need and accept love and compassion without suspicion.
Of course it's wrong to always demand from another because then they are selfish and become a burden but those in need of support should never be made to feel a burden for asking for help.
I think it would be a very uncaring world if we all felt complete with our own company because we were too afraid to need from or give to others.:hugs:
What more could make a man feel more complete than a woman "needing" him for all the love he can give?..........
My sunshine
With one thought of her smile within my mind,
My sweet love, how she makes the sun shine,
Her loveliness so warm and true,
Brightly shining in the sky so blue,
Her skin flushed pink as a summers rose,
Glowing reassuringly she heals all woes,
Petals so glossy glistening with dew,
She is a wonder so treasured of so few,
Sitting gently in my palm, so soft, so perfect,
Forever admired, comforted and protected,
A rose, so pristine, so kind, a pleasure to hold,
Bringing warmth within when the weather’s so cold,
An angel with comforting wings,
With a voice that joyfully sings,
A precious woman, so special where she lays,
She makes me feel complete in every way.:hugs: