dave316
13-03-09, 22:00
Hi there i hope someone can help me,
I am Dave, 27 from the UK. I have been suffering from panic attacks, agoraphobia, health anx and general anxiety since 2001. I very frequently suffer with anticipatory fear/dread when thinking about an upcoming event in my life which i am concerned about.
My main fear with having a panic attack and being anxious generally is the thought of fainting or making the heart so erratic with panic that it causes cardiac arrest or something like that. If you were to ask me what my ultimate fear is, that is it right there. Its the whole people staring at me thing that i fear too. I freuquently get these type of fears and emotions when i am in a situation that i cannot easily or quickly escape from (job centre reviews, job interviews, supermarket queues etc)
This sunday i am attending a christening for my godson and i am absolutely terrified because there is a one hour mass before the christening. I have been to the church i am going to back in 2006 for another christening and the place was small and packed full of people. This memory of the overcrowdedness is not helping me and is adding more anxiety to me right now as i think about it. I as we speak have a twinge over my left pectoral and am finding it hard to breathe as i contemplate sunday.
Can anyone help me by giving me any advice you possibly can on how to get through the service with as little panic as poss (with ideas etc) and also if there is anything i can do tomorrow to prepare myself for sunday (eat certain foods, avoid certain activities, take part in particular activities to mentally prepare for example). I am scared about feeling faint or having a cardiac problem because i will be panicking because i cannot in my mind escape the situation. (i cant just go outside when i need to because i am a godfather and have responsibilities on sunday)
Need advice and help really badly!!
God Bless You guys and girls
Dave
UK
I am Dave, 27 from the UK. I have been suffering from panic attacks, agoraphobia, health anx and general anxiety since 2001. I very frequently suffer with anticipatory fear/dread when thinking about an upcoming event in my life which i am concerned about.
My main fear with having a panic attack and being anxious generally is the thought of fainting or making the heart so erratic with panic that it causes cardiac arrest or something like that. If you were to ask me what my ultimate fear is, that is it right there. Its the whole people staring at me thing that i fear too. I freuquently get these type of fears and emotions when i am in a situation that i cannot easily or quickly escape from (job centre reviews, job interviews, supermarket queues etc)
This sunday i am attending a christening for my godson and i am absolutely terrified because there is a one hour mass before the christening. I have been to the church i am going to back in 2006 for another christening and the place was small and packed full of people. This memory of the overcrowdedness is not helping me and is adding more anxiety to me right now as i think about it. I as we speak have a twinge over my left pectoral and am finding it hard to breathe as i contemplate sunday.
Can anyone help me by giving me any advice you possibly can on how to get through the service with as little panic as poss (with ideas etc) and also if there is anything i can do tomorrow to prepare myself for sunday (eat certain foods, avoid certain activities, take part in particular activities to mentally prepare for example). I am scared about feeling faint or having a cardiac problem because i will be panicking because i cannot in my mind escape the situation. (i cant just go outside when i need to because i am a godfather and have responsibilities on sunday)
Need advice and help really badly!!
God Bless You guys and girls
Dave
UK