Plumpetals
15-04-09, 16:52
I’m stressed.
I’ve got tons to do … so much that it’s really all overwhelming. Instead of actually getting things done, I make lists of things to do, stress over the tasks that lie ahead, and end up procrastinating … which brings on the anxiety.
The anxiety makes me feel like I can’t cope … so I don’t get things done. Then I feel terrible. I feel useless. I feel stupid for not being able to pull myself together just to accomplish the simplest of tasks – they may be time-consuming, but they’re all achievable. Then comes the self-loathing.
Self-loathing brings about self-destructive behaviors … and worse, self-destructive thoughts. My self-esteem goes lower than rock bottom (as it’s usually just hovering around rock bottom). I hate myself. Then I wonder why does my partner love me … then it goes on to torturous thoughts wondering why my ex left me (perhaps these crazy thoughts/feelings drove him away). Then it moves on to depression.
*Sigh*
I know it’s silly. I know I should just ‘get over it’ and do what I have to do … and in the end, I guess that is what happens. I don’t know why I have to be such a drama queen about it, but I guess it’s what I’m feeling at the moment.
This is my typical cycle of emotions – stress, anxiety, self-loathing, depression … I go through it more often than I’d like. I know I should be able to just stop it, but I don’t know how yet …
I’m just looking for a way to break this cycle.
I’ve got tons to do … so much that it’s really all overwhelming. Instead of actually getting things done, I make lists of things to do, stress over the tasks that lie ahead, and end up procrastinating … which brings on the anxiety.
The anxiety makes me feel like I can’t cope … so I don’t get things done. Then I feel terrible. I feel useless. I feel stupid for not being able to pull myself together just to accomplish the simplest of tasks – they may be time-consuming, but they’re all achievable. Then comes the self-loathing.
Self-loathing brings about self-destructive behaviors … and worse, self-destructive thoughts. My self-esteem goes lower than rock bottom (as it’s usually just hovering around rock bottom). I hate myself. Then I wonder why does my partner love me … then it goes on to torturous thoughts wondering why my ex left me (perhaps these crazy thoughts/feelings drove him away). Then it moves on to depression.
*Sigh*
I know it’s silly. I know I should just ‘get over it’ and do what I have to do … and in the end, I guess that is what happens. I don’t know why I have to be such a drama queen about it, but I guess it’s what I’m feeling at the moment.
This is my typical cycle of emotions – stress, anxiety, self-loathing, depression … I go through it more often than I’d like. I know I should be able to just stop it, but I don’t know how yet …
I’m just looking for a way to break this cycle.