rocklover
26-04-09, 08:41
I split up with my boyfriend of 15 months a few weeks back and although upsetting it wasn't too bad as he was really nice and was adamant he wanted to be friends and that he wanted us to be able to speak to each other. He asked me to keep in touch.
So Friday I sent him an email wishing him a great holiday for May and he deleted me from his Facbook page with no explanation. I have now been torturing myself and wondering what I have done to make him change his mind so quickly. I know I shouldn't care as we are not together and I also know that I don't want to get back with him, but this is killing me and really hurts.
I wish my mind could let it go, but I have a huge guilty conscience and I find it very difficult not understanding why he has done this. I am starting a new job tomorrow which is terrifying and I just started Citalopram on Thursday, and so my anx is sky high anyway, the ex has just made it worse.
I know realistically that I haven't done anything bad, but I also know he is the type of person who gets very upset over small things and I know he believes I have done something. I feel like a bad person, even though I haven't done anything. How can I get my brain to stop analysing this? It's driving me insane!
So Friday I sent him an email wishing him a great holiday for May and he deleted me from his Facbook page with no explanation. I have now been torturing myself and wondering what I have done to make him change his mind so quickly. I know I shouldn't care as we are not together and I also know that I don't want to get back with him, but this is killing me and really hurts.
I wish my mind could let it go, but I have a huge guilty conscience and I find it very difficult not understanding why he has done this. I am starting a new job tomorrow which is terrifying and I just started Citalopram on Thursday, and so my anx is sky high anyway, the ex has just made it worse.
I know realistically that I haven't done anything bad, but I also know he is the type of person who gets very upset over small things and I know he believes I have done something. I feel like a bad person, even though I haven't done anything. How can I get my brain to stop analysing this? It's driving me insane!