Bluebelle
29-04-09, 22:06
I am in the midst of a serious depression and I have GAD and in the past I have been house bound and unable to drive
I am feeling really sad. I seem to have lost my motivation for recovery largely due to my family.
Usually we have a really close knit family (all involved in a family business) and I have always been there to support my family members for any issues they might be experiencing.
Now I am in this horrible depression and my family has abandoned me. I live by myself with just my tiny dog and kitty cat. No one ever checks on me- before my depression took hold of me - my family phoned me constantly sometimes a business question sometimes not. My phone number is unlisted so I knew that if my phone rang I could answer it as it would family. I would always be involved in discussions and included in decision making.
Now no one ever phones me and at work -conversations stop if I am around- I feel so isolated and abandoned. I spoke to my sister about this and she said everyone is worried and doesn't want to cause me extra stress. Which made me feel worse because if everyone knows I am suffering why isn't anyone checking on me? She said " Everyone knows you're suffering but the best thing for you is to be left alone to figure this out yourself..."
I feel horrible about this and it has been escalating for about a week now, getting worse and worse. Yesterday I made an appointment with my GP and have started on citalopram because I can't deal with my depression AND this family abandonment - it is too much.
I feel like I don't even know my family and they don't know me. I need help company and friendship from my family because I don't have friends outside of work. I can't believe no one is there for me because they think I can figure this out on my own. I feel like I have nothing, no one to recover for, like no one cares if I am here or not. I can't believe that I contribute so little to their lives that they are going to leave me alone to figure this out. My sister said everyone is afraid of me and so they can't talk to me- I really don't understand this. I am the one everyone comes and cries on if they're having a problem.
I feel like there is no reason for me to recover- especially if there are all these misinterpretations. Like even if I do beat this depression and anxiety I will have to go through years to try and restore anyone's opinion of me.
I am really heartbroken by this abandonment. If it weren't for NMP I wouldn't have any support
Thank you for taking time to read this.
I am feeling really sad. I seem to have lost my motivation for recovery largely due to my family.
Usually we have a really close knit family (all involved in a family business) and I have always been there to support my family members for any issues they might be experiencing.
Now I am in this horrible depression and my family has abandoned me. I live by myself with just my tiny dog and kitty cat. No one ever checks on me- before my depression took hold of me - my family phoned me constantly sometimes a business question sometimes not. My phone number is unlisted so I knew that if my phone rang I could answer it as it would family. I would always be involved in discussions and included in decision making.
Now no one ever phones me and at work -conversations stop if I am around- I feel so isolated and abandoned. I spoke to my sister about this and she said everyone is worried and doesn't want to cause me extra stress. Which made me feel worse because if everyone knows I am suffering why isn't anyone checking on me? She said " Everyone knows you're suffering but the best thing for you is to be left alone to figure this out yourself..."
I feel horrible about this and it has been escalating for about a week now, getting worse and worse. Yesterday I made an appointment with my GP and have started on citalopram because I can't deal with my depression AND this family abandonment - it is too much.
I feel like I don't even know my family and they don't know me. I need help company and friendship from my family because I don't have friends outside of work. I can't believe no one is there for me because they think I can figure this out on my own. I feel like I have nothing, no one to recover for, like no one cares if I am here or not. I can't believe that I contribute so little to their lives that they are going to leave me alone to figure this out. My sister said everyone is afraid of me and so they can't talk to me- I really don't understand this. I am the one everyone comes and cries on if they're having a problem.
I feel like there is no reason for me to recover- especially if there are all these misinterpretations. Like even if I do beat this depression and anxiety I will have to go through years to try and restore anyone's opinion of me.
I am really heartbroken by this abandonment. If it weren't for NMP I wouldn't have any support
Thank you for taking time to read this.