sam_1
03-05-09, 11:12
heya,
I currently livewith my boyfriend, but our relationship has been consumed by arguements in the past few months. therefore i decided i would look for somwhere else to live, now i have found a flat that is perfect for me...they will accept housin benefit and my dog but im now in two minds! since ive been looking weve stopped arguing and things are better. So the thought of missing him is holding me bak.
However the flat is on a bus route and closer to town and my mum whereas the house we live in now, is not and its a hassle to get everywhere. So the ideaof freedom and more independence is incredibly appealing.
Plus im 19 so before i settle down with someone i would like to hav hadmy own place at least once!
But im scared i'll miss him! and im comfortable here, so its the uncertainty thats annoying me!
I basicaly just need some outside advice pleeeeeease, as i am very indecisive.
thanks all!
I currently livewith my boyfriend, but our relationship has been consumed by arguements in the past few months. therefore i decided i would look for somwhere else to live, now i have found a flat that is perfect for me...they will accept housin benefit and my dog but im now in two minds! since ive been looking weve stopped arguing and things are better. So the thought of missing him is holding me bak.
However the flat is on a bus route and closer to town and my mum whereas the house we live in now, is not and its a hassle to get everywhere. So the ideaof freedom and more independence is incredibly appealing.
Plus im 19 so before i settle down with someone i would like to hav hadmy own place at least once!
But im scared i'll miss him! and im comfortable here, so its the uncertainty thats annoying me!
I basicaly just need some outside advice pleeeeeease, as i am very indecisive.
thanks all!