Wee-Mee
04-05-09, 18:56
PLEASE HELP ME
Me and my partner had tried to sort things out and he was treating me to a meal and a night on the town if you will and stay at a nice hotel.
Got to the hotel about 4:30pm and we relaxed before I got ready..he got some champagne and I sipped some whilst doing my hair etc and getting ready...it felt nice..We got our meal for 8pm at a lovely restaurant and for once I was feeling sort of nice and I dunno..calm
But..then it just got downhill from ther eand it started with my friend.I had to meet him to give him his passport to get into a club. But the club he was going to actually never id him anyways.
3 of my friends then including him met me and I gave him the passport and they basically just ran away from me and my partner. Like,I was in heels and couldn't keep up and I felt like a Godamn sheepdog following them.We had to go that way anyways but we were gonna pop in with them for a quick drink. Didn't happen.
I'm 22 and I feel I'm immiture sometimes.. :(
Me being BPD traited apparantly,it just put me in the worst mood ever,and really at this point I just wanted to get drunk..stupid I know.. But the bars and stuff we tried getting into were closing and we didn't want to go higher uptown to a club..it was getting late anyways to get in.
I basically moped and ruined the night but I tried to cheer up but I set my bf off and he started and then we fought..AGAIN.. and basically ended up going kinda crazy in the hotel room. I kicked my ankle off of something and it's bruised to hell. :'(
And then my bf told me that my parents are why I'm the way I am and started telling me he bought "walking on eggshells" for people living with someone with bpd and that my mum apparantly told him that he was never to bring up stuff that happened to me as a child again or something..I was so out of it with anger I can't remember.
But I often have weird thoughts of a room with piano that was in my dads friend's house when I was about 4 and I never know if anything happened.
And I remember getting so drunk a year or two ago and I blurted out to my bf(same one) that I didn't know if I had been abused or not and this and that and I can't help beigng awful yada yada drunken stuff and he told my mum and dad and I was up all night with my parents speaking and there were no answers.
But apparantly shortly after that my mum said to my bf that he was never to tell me but apparantly one time in nursery my dad and stuff got called up cos I had blood in my pants but nothing came of it and I AM FREAKING THE HELL OUT.
My bf told me this last night whilst arguing and I ended up taking a panic attack.
I wanted to hurt myself so bad but it was kind of hard when the only thing in the room was tea spoons http://www.ceruleanbutterfly.com/forum/images/smilies/frown.gif
I feel awful. I am a bad person and I am more messed up than I thought and I just dunno what to do. And my as far as my mum knows last night was wonderful and nothing happened but I can't talk about this now.
I don't know what to do. I really feel like just ending it. Like,I just cause trouble,if it wasn't for me moping about the passport stuff I would have been fine..but I just go off the head with stuff and get hurt so bad and I just suck.
I was actually going to go down to hospital today,the psych bit and book myself in cos I really dont know what else to do. Bpd,anxiety,EDNOS,Depression and now this. I dont know.
If you read all this you are a star. :weep: :weep:
Me and my partner had tried to sort things out and he was treating me to a meal and a night on the town if you will and stay at a nice hotel.
Got to the hotel about 4:30pm and we relaxed before I got ready..he got some champagne and I sipped some whilst doing my hair etc and getting ready...it felt nice..We got our meal for 8pm at a lovely restaurant and for once I was feeling sort of nice and I dunno..calm
But..then it just got downhill from ther eand it started with my friend.I had to meet him to give him his passport to get into a club. But the club he was going to actually never id him anyways.
3 of my friends then including him met me and I gave him the passport and they basically just ran away from me and my partner. Like,I was in heels and couldn't keep up and I felt like a Godamn sheepdog following them.We had to go that way anyways but we were gonna pop in with them for a quick drink. Didn't happen.
I'm 22 and I feel I'm immiture sometimes.. :(
Me being BPD traited apparantly,it just put me in the worst mood ever,and really at this point I just wanted to get drunk..stupid I know.. But the bars and stuff we tried getting into were closing and we didn't want to go higher uptown to a club..it was getting late anyways to get in.
I basically moped and ruined the night but I tried to cheer up but I set my bf off and he started and then we fought..AGAIN.. and basically ended up going kinda crazy in the hotel room. I kicked my ankle off of something and it's bruised to hell. :'(
And then my bf told me that my parents are why I'm the way I am and started telling me he bought "walking on eggshells" for people living with someone with bpd and that my mum apparantly told him that he was never to bring up stuff that happened to me as a child again or something..I was so out of it with anger I can't remember.
But I often have weird thoughts of a room with piano that was in my dads friend's house when I was about 4 and I never know if anything happened.
And I remember getting so drunk a year or two ago and I blurted out to my bf(same one) that I didn't know if I had been abused or not and this and that and I can't help beigng awful yada yada drunken stuff and he told my mum and dad and I was up all night with my parents speaking and there were no answers.
But apparantly shortly after that my mum said to my bf that he was never to tell me but apparantly one time in nursery my dad and stuff got called up cos I had blood in my pants but nothing came of it and I AM FREAKING THE HELL OUT.
My bf told me this last night whilst arguing and I ended up taking a panic attack.
I wanted to hurt myself so bad but it was kind of hard when the only thing in the room was tea spoons http://www.ceruleanbutterfly.com/forum/images/smilies/frown.gif
I feel awful. I am a bad person and I am more messed up than I thought and I just dunno what to do. And my as far as my mum knows last night was wonderful and nothing happened but I can't talk about this now.
I don't know what to do. I really feel like just ending it. Like,I just cause trouble,if it wasn't for me moping about the passport stuff I would have been fine..but I just go off the head with stuff and get hurt so bad and I just suck.
I was actually going to go down to hospital today,the psych bit and book myself in cos I really dont know what else to do. Bpd,anxiety,EDNOS,Depression and now this. I dont know.
If you read all this you are a star. :weep: :weep: