tammyg
06-10-05, 20:58
Hi - this might be a long post so sorry in advance!!
I have been doing quite well lately but things are getting a little too much. I'm not really sure whether it's a case of too much, too soon or too little, too late. I'm hoping it's the first one!
Anyway, I have been doing some self exposure therapy which is really hard but have been getting on ok up until now. My fear is emetophobia. On Tuesday a child was sick in my classroom first thing in the morning(across the other side of the room though) and I managed to put into practise all my new strategies and wasn't fine but was ok.
Yesterday we had all the children's parents in for a workshop which made me a little nervous anyway. I was anxious about speaking to them all and wanting them to like me. Then a child was sick (9:22am). This time I managed to get a little closer and even helped her get changed. She was sick again half an hour later and after a brief 'time out' in my classroom alone I managed to go back and even sat with her for a while (only a few minutes). Sorry if this is gross lol but I then actually cleaned up the sick - with a smile on my face lol cos I was so pleased I could even be near it!! (although I had kinda convinced myself it was water not sick so this may be why). Had a mini PA at dinnertime thinking about what I had done.
Today (at 9:20am!) a child was sick AGAIN!!! What is going on?! It's like someone is really testing me. Anyway, it was awful but after my experiences yesterday I was determined not to let it get to me. I was aware that I didn't want to avoid the child so I went and sat with him for a few minutes (he had told me he felt better but I was thinking about the child who was sick twice yesterday so I don't know whether this was a success or not).
Anyway lol to the point! I know I am not supposed to think about it and when I thought about it all after work today it nearly sent me into another PA. Does anyone have experience of exposure therapy? How exactly did you do it? I have a video which I work on but obviously that is in my own time, when I am feeling ready. The sort of exposure I have had the last few days I have not chosen to have and am not sure really whether it's made me worse or done me good! Is exposure therapy best done in your own time or just when the situation arises?
So now I'm kinda scared what's going to happen tomorrow at around the 9:20 mark and I know I shouldn't think about it because this will probably set me off but I can't help it! Three days in a row just seems a little too much of a coincidence. But at the same time the rational part of me knows this is just silly and I can control these thoughts.
I would appreciate hearing anyones thoughts or experiences.
Thanks
Tammy x
I have been doing quite well lately but things are getting a little too much. I'm not really sure whether it's a case of too much, too soon or too little, too late. I'm hoping it's the first one!
Anyway, I have been doing some self exposure therapy which is really hard but have been getting on ok up until now. My fear is emetophobia. On Tuesday a child was sick in my classroom first thing in the morning(across the other side of the room though) and I managed to put into practise all my new strategies and wasn't fine but was ok.
Yesterday we had all the children's parents in for a workshop which made me a little nervous anyway. I was anxious about speaking to them all and wanting them to like me. Then a child was sick (9:22am). This time I managed to get a little closer and even helped her get changed. She was sick again half an hour later and after a brief 'time out' in my classroom alone I managed to go back and even sat with her for a while (only a few minutes). Sorry if this is gross lol but I then actually cleaned up the sick - with a smile on my face lol cos I was so pleased I could even be near it!! (although I had kinda convinced myself it was water not sick so this may be why). Had a mini PA at dinnertime thinking about what I had done.
Today (at 9:20am!) a child was sick AGAIN!!! What is going on?! It's like someone is really testing me. Anyway, it was awful but after my experiences yesterday I was determined not to let it get to me. I was aware that I didn't want to avoid the child so I went and sat with him for a few minutes (he had told me he felt better but I was thinking about the child who was sick twice yesterday so I don't know whether this was a success or not).
Anyway lol to the point! I know I am not supposed to think about it and when I thought about it all after work today it nearly sent me into another PA. Does anyone have experience of exposure therapy? How exactly did you do it? I have a video which I work on but obviously that is in my own time, when I am feeling ready. The sort of exposure I have had the last few days I have not chosen to have and am not sure really whether it's made me worse or done me good! Is exposure therapy best done in your own time or just when the situation arises?
So now I'm kinda scared what's going to happen tomorrow at around the 9:20 mark and I know I shouldn't think about it because this will probably set me off but I can't help it! Three days in a row just seems a little too much of a coincidence. But at the same time the rational part of me knows this is just silly and I can control these thoughts.
I would appreciate hearing anyones thoughts or experiences.
Thanks
Tammy x