Carla louise
25-08-09, 21:12
I have spent some time with a friend, Paul, today who is a real inspiration. His wife got Grade 3 cancer and managed to pull through after a long and difficult battle. When they thought that everything was ok their 16 year old son was then diagnosed with cancer too. He went into his sons room one night and his son started to say `what if (I die)', Paul said `no, we don't do `what if'. I have been going through a tough patch lately and he has given me what I think is fabulous advice `You don't ask what if' and you don't ask `why', you aren't going to get an answer and its just going to screw your head up. Now I know its easier said than done, but I'm going to give this rule a damn good try, as I think if a man faced with the death of his wife, then his son, can do it, I can x