cathytink3rb3ll
08-10-09, 10:51
Hi All,
Recently in the last 2 months I have gone very much down hill - even so that I havnt visited this forum sinse then...
I had a full time job and also moonlighted as an ann summers party organiser in the evenings.... Because the use of promotion was there with ann summers I jacked in my full time job as this was what i really wanted to do... Anyway I also went off sick as everytime I went into my full time job i kept getting panic attacks and couldt even go in.... The dorctor signed me off for my 4 weeks notice and I havent been in .....
Since quitting my FT position I have gone really downhill.... I cant go out by myself (not that I could really before but i felt a bit better about it all) Im even feeling anxious in my wee flat I am in..... I am making any excuse possible not to do stuff - just becasue anytime I am out I feel like I am going to pass out and I have waves of it like I will... And I cant even drive now! (my car was always my safe haven)
I still think quitting was the right idea as it brought my anxiousness on as it wasnt a busy place and I was just left sat there and everything was constantly on my mind.
Anyway i really cant afford atm just to have this party plan job (as i cant even go out and do the parties at the mo...) So am looking for another PT job to substitute it but I cant even go out of the house never mind get a job around poeple and everything!!!
I just needed some advise really as I dont know how much longer I can stick this out...
Obviously I need some money in now as I wont be able to pay the rent/loan/CC and car insurance and stuff... And I cant borrow off anyone (and dont want to)
I live with my boyfriend and I love him to bits but I know im stressing him out and driving him insane as hes in a FT job and its very stressful then hes obviously got me on his mind which worries him - and obvously the financial risk is also getting to him. I just dont want this to screw up our relationship as we get on great and hes the only person id ever trust with anything.
I jsut need to know what you guys think.... I really need some help and you guys will know what to do for the best....
Sorry for the essay but I needed to get it all out :)
Thanks in advance guys :blush:
Cathy xxx
Recently in the last 2 months I have gone very much down hill - even so that I havnt visited this forum sinse then...
I had a full time job and also moonlighted as an ann summers party organiser in the evenings.... Because the use of promotion was there with ann summers I jacked in my full time job as this was what i really wanted to do... Anyway I also went off sick as everytime I went into my full time job i kept getting panic attacks and couldt even go in.... The dorctor signed me off for my 4 weeks notice and I havent been in .....
Since quitting my FT position I have gone really downhill.... I cant go out by myself (not that I could really before but i felt a bit better about it all) Im even feeling anxious in my wee flat I am in..... I am making any excuse possible not to do stuff - just becasue anytime I am out I feel like I am going to pass out and I have waves of it like I will... And I cant even drive now! (my car was always my safe haven)
I still think quitting was the right idea as it brought my anxiousness on as it wasnt a busy place and I was just left sat there and everything was constantly on my mind.
Anyway i really cant afford atm just to have this party plan job (as i cant even go out and do the parties at the mo...) So am looking for another PT job to substitute it but I cant even go out of the house never mind get a job around poeple and everything!!!
I just needed some advise really as I dont know how much longer I can stick this out...
Obviously I need some money in now as I wont be able to pay the rent/loan/CC and car insurance and stuff... And I cant borrow off anyone (and dont want to)
I live with my boyfriend and I love him to bits but I know im stressing him out and driving him insane as hes in a FT job and its very stressful then hes obviously got me on his mind which worries him - and obvously the financial risk is also getting to him. I just dont want this to screw up our relationship as we get on great and hes the only person id ever trust with anything.
I jsut need to know what you guys think.... I really need some help and you guys will know what to do for the best....
Sorry for the essay but I needed to get it all out :)
Thanks in advance guys :blush:
Cathy xxx