PoppyC
09-10-09, 10:56
Hi
I am trying so hard to be positive, and I take my medication and do everything self help and eat everything healthy there is according to the mental health diet sheets and I was feeling so much better a while ago but I dont know what is happening now
I just seem to have cut everyone out of my life including my family, (my family were treating me badly though so for the sake of how upset I was getting due to the arguments I cut them out and we now have no contact at all) but not my son obviously.He is the one person that I live for.
I know it sounds mad but I dont feel comfortable around people and I don't trust them and I find people strange - but not ones with mental health problems - I fit right in with people like that as though we have something in common and shared.
I cry lots every day and I find it so hard to relax unless my tablets have kicked in.
I feel everyone is having a better time even though I try to tell myself maybe under the surface they are not.
I just feel like I am outside looking in at everyone who is having some great time in life. I feel that the people who are in my life - my boyfriends family and friends - don't like me. I can tell they think I am odd by things that have been said and just by their reactions and what they have said about me to my boyfriend - you can just tell can't you.
I am so bitter towards my boyfriend, even though he is supportive and understanding mostly, because he is always so happy and has a full life with lots of friends and interests. I have never ever met anyone like him who is permanantly happy and positive. I am the exact opposite! I know I should not be bitter but maybe its jealousy of why he is so happy and contented in life and I am going crazy! I think he expects me to keep on smiling despite how I feel and it is so hard to do that. I told him from now on I am going to be me and I am not going to pretend everything is ok with me when its not. Why should I keep smiling just to keep him feeling fed up with me. If he had a broken leg I wouldn't expect him to carry on walking on it no matter how painful just to please me.
I dont know why he stays with me. I am so screwed up. I suppose I am jealous of him and the life he leads. I don't tell him this though.
I feel like I am rapidly going downhill and just so unhappy and I am worried because what is there left for me to make me feel any better. I would be happy with just feeling a bit better. I dont think I will ever feel 100% better and I would be happy just to feel a teeny bit better.
I feel like I am drifting away from everything and everyone.
My agoraphobia is back with a vengeance.
I have been like this for over a year or so now. I had a breakdown and then started picking up on my medication and I can tell the medication works and I wouldn't be without it but yet I have now started feeling like this. When will it ever end???
I have a massive headache constantly at the moment and other little ailments caused by the constant upset. I am trying to be really positive and its just not happening.
I keep thinking of leaving my boyfriend just so he doesnt have to be around miserable me anymore and can find a girlfriend who is happy and full of life, who doesnt get anxiety,agoraphobia, and depression. He is such a lovely good person and I really cant understand why he stays with me. I keep telling him to go and find someone else.He says he stays with me because he loves me, however you dont just stay put with someone because you love them, if they are making you miserable do you???
I am worried I am going to be like this for life. I really think I would be better alone as then at least I wouldn't have to bother about anyone else with the way I am feeling. Does anyone else feel like this???:weep:
I am trying so hard to be positive, and I take my medication and do everything self help and eat everything healthy there is according to the mental health diet sheets and I was feeling so much better a while ago but I dont know what is happening now
I just seem to have cut everyone out of my life including my family, (my family were treating me badly though so for the sake of how upset I was getting due to the arguments I cut them out and we now have no contact at all) but not my son obviously.He is the one person that I live for.
I know it sounds mad but I dont feel comfortable around people and I don't trust them and I find people strange - but not ones with mental health problems - I fit right in with people like that as though we have something in common and shared.
I cry lots every day and I find it so hard to relax unless my tablets have kicked in.
I feel everyone is having a better time even though I try to tell myself maybe under the surface they are not.
I just feel like I am outside looking in at everyone who is having some great time in life. I feel that the people who are in my life - my boyfriends family and friends - don't like me. I can tell they think I am odd by things that have been said and just by their reactions and what they have said about me to my boyfriend - you can just tell can't you.
I am so bitter towards my boyfriend, even though he is supportive and understanding mostly, because he is always so happy and has a full life with lots of friends and interests. I have never ever met anyone like him who is permanantly happy and positive. I am the exact opposite! I know I should not be bitter but maybe its jealousy of why he is so happy and contented in life and I am going crazy! I think he expects me to keep on smiling despite how I feel and it is so hard to do that. I told him from now on I am going to be me and I am not going to pretend everything is ok with me when its not. Why should I keep smiling just to keep him feeling fed up with me. If he had a broken leg I wouldn't expect him to carry on walking on it no matter how painful just to please me.
I dont know why he stays with me. I am so screwed up. I suppose I am jealous of him and the life he leads. I don't tell him this though.
I feel like I am rapidly going downhill and just so unhappy and I am worried because what is there left for me to make me feel any better. I would be happy with just feeling a bit better. I dont think I will ever feel 100% better and I would be happy just to feel a teeny bit better.
I feel like I am drifting away from everything and everyone.
My agoraphobia is back with a vengeance.
I have been like this for over a year or so now. I had a breakdown and then started picking up on my medication and I can tell the medication works and I wouldn't be without it but yet I have now started feeling like this. When will it ever end???
I have a massive headache constantly at the moment and other little ailments caused by the constant upset. I am trying to be really positive and its just not happening.
I keep thinking of leaving my boyfriend just so he doesnt have to be around miserable me anymore and can find a girlfriend who is happy and full of life, who doesnt get anxiety,agoraphobia, and depression. He is such a lovely good person and I really cant understand why he stays with me. I keep telling him to go and find someone else.He says he stays with me because he loves me, however you dont just stay put with someone because you love them, if they are making you miserable do you???
I am worried I am going to be like this for life. I really think I would be better alone as then at least I wouldn't have to bother about anyone else with the way I am feeling. Does anyone else feel like this???:weep: