bananas13
25-12-09, 05:41
Idk if some of you remember me from last year when I joined this forum. I checked myself into the psych ward twice around this time last year, and throughout the course of the year I got somewhat better. I got a job and went back to college and I guess I was fine... until now.
It all started up again at my boyfriend's best friend's wedding on Tuesday. I don't know why, it just stressed me out! The thought of planning a wedding in detail like that just did me in... and the boy is 18 years old and married! I've known him for years and it was just so surreal and weird that I like freaked out... and my panic has started again.
I guess the reason was because my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged this summer... and the thought of planning a wedding right now while I'm in school (I'm 20) is too much for me to handle... not to mention the fact that neither of us have jobs because we're in school so there's no way we could support ourselves. I want to marry him, but I want to be financially stable first and he knows that... but I think watching our friends get engaged and married in the last 4 months made us want that as well. Their situation is different though because he's in the military and makes a lot of money, whereas my boyfriend and I are both in college living off our parents.
Also, Craig (my boyfriend) and I are moving in together next fall and I'm scared because the last time I tried to live on my own, I ended up back home with my parents because of my anxiety attacks and depression. Craig knows how to calm me down more than anyone, but I'm still afraid to be away from my parents. I'm scared to live on my own!
More than anything, I fear that this panic is going to be a recurring thing every year and that I'll end up back in the psych ward again and again =(... I fear that I'm just going to become this mental person who can never live a normal life and have to be locked up. Also, my uncle committed suicide like 5 years ago, and ever since then I have this fear that I'm capable of the same thing. I do NOT want to die or kill myself, I just have a fear that I will because I won't be able to get relief. It's scary. I just want to live a normal life and be happy and not have to fear that I'm going crazy... I don't want this to keep happening every year!!
Can anyone relate? I really need some help and reassurance that I'm going to be fine. =(
It all started up again at my boyfriend's best friend's wedding on Tuesday. I don't know why, it just stressed me out! The thought of planning a wedding in detail like that just did me in... and the boy is 18 years old and married! I've known him for years and it was just so surreal and weird that I like freaked out... and my panic has started again.
I guess the reason was because my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged this summer... and the thought of planning a wedding right now while I'm in school (I'm 20) is too much for me to handle... not to mention the fact that neither of us have jobs because we're in school so there's no way we could support ourselves. I want to marry him, but I want to be financially stable first and he knows that... but I think watching our friends get engaged and married in the last 4 months made us want that as well. Their situation is different though because he's in the military and makes a lot of money, whereas my boyfriend and I are both in college living off our parents.
Also, Craig (my boyfriend) and I are moving in together next fall and I'm scared because the last time I tried to live on my own, I ended up back home with my parents because of my anxiety attacks and depression. Craig knows how to calm me down more than anyone, but I'm still afraid to be away from my parents. I'm scared to live on my own!
More than anything, I fear that this panic is going to be a recurring thing every year and that I'll end up back in the psych ward again and again =(... I fear that I'm just going to become this mental person who can never live a normal life and have to be locked up. Also, my uncle committed suicide like 5 years ago, and ever since then I have this fear that I'm capable of the same thing. I do NOT want to die or kill myself, I just have a fear that I will because I won't be able to get relief. It's scary. I just want to live a normal life and be happy and not have to fear that I'm going crazy... I don't want this to keep happening every year!!
Can anyone relate? I really need some help and reassurance that I'm going to be fine. =(