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missunderstood
24-11-05, 12:43
Hey everyone, i managed to go to work yesterday and was so pleased with myself. I was worrying about it all day but I walked to the bus stop, had a half an hour bus ride and walked another 20 minutes to work. It was horrible at times cos I could feel myself getting anxious and got an awful headache.

It doesn't make sense to me that today I couldn't make it into uni cos I was too scared. I have another lecture at 3 and I doubt I'll go to that either, I hate being stuck in lecture theatres cos I'm worried I'll panic or something will happen to me and I won't be able to get out. I also just hate the travelling there and back, I always have all these horrible thoughts that I'm going to die.

I guess you cant fix everything all at once!!

Becca xxx

Meg
24-11-05, 12:53
One step at a time Becca and it is often after a good day that you have a difficult one.

Learn when to push yourself and JFDI it and when to be kind to yourself..

Meg
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Piglet
24-11-05, 12:57
Becca, hi ya hun,

I am working on staying places if I feel panicky at the moment too.

I have started getting back out and about on a fairly regular basis now, I am working on trying to be more relaxed in these places.

I think because I so want to feel good, rather than just coping, is why I am doing not too badly with this.

Firstly I tell myself I want more than just to be able to manage, I then drop my shoulders right down and I breathe nice and deeply down into my tum. It's not easy but little by little its beginning to help. I also sometimes find somewhere to sit for a few minutes to calm myself.

Hope this helps a little.

Love Piglet :)

"Supposing a tree fell down, Pooh, when we were underneath it?" said Piglet.
"Supposing it didn't," said Pooh after careful thought.