Andromeda
05-01-10, 10:09
i'm typing this now to try to take my mind of the full blown panic i can feel erupting inside of me....hopefully it will work and take my mind off it .
i thought i had got over this , i'm not naive enough to think i can just be 100% normal again like that but i thought i had 'cracked the code' .
just accepting the anxiety and realizing that it's not going to harm you - i really felt i'd mastered it !
to an extent i have done as it's been 5 months since my symptoms started and i have given up the beta blockers already as i felt they weren't really doing anything for me , but since christmas it's just been a downward spiral back to a place i can't cope with .
something will trigger my anxiety e.g. my vision will go funny for a second - panic will set in (oh no my eyes are going funny , i must be dying!!!!!) - then my brain kicks in (you are not dying , you have been starring at the light for too long so naturally when you look away your vision is going to be a bit weird) - deep breathing - over the anxiety .
this is the cycle i followed .
but now
i am CONSTANTLY on edge , there's no relief from it , even if i'm just sitting down doing nothing , my leg will be twitching like crazy and my heart will be fluttering !
ANYTHING can set me off , for example someone dropping something (????!) or a loud noise , or basically something unexpected .
as soon as i feel any type of sensation in my body i freak out and believe that i'm going to drop down dead .... when you type that it doesn't look serious , it's almost impossible to describe to someone who has never been through anxiety what that feeling is like , but i genuinely believe that i'm about to die at any moment .
it's so crippling , i'm 20 years old , i want to be able to wake up in the morning and not be scared to move , i want to enjoy my life , i want to be able to go out to clubs and not have to make excuses to leave 10 minutes after getting there because i feel dizzy and sick with anxiety .
i can't seem to get my brain to rationalize with itself anymore , instead my thoughts are just going crazy and i don't feel like i have control over them anymore , i don't know how to get them back !!!!
i don't mean to sound like a whining muppet - as i know there are people much worse off than me , with serious illnesses and terrible things happening with their lives etcetc , but like i've tried to explain to my family , i literally cannot help or shake this feeling , if i could then i wouldn't have an anxiety disorder ?
i know that i'm going to have my ups and downs with this thing , but right now i'm on a massive downer and would like to start feeling better again
the major thing thats getting me down is sleep , i just can't sleep . the only time i'm able to sleep is when i'm literally exhausted and can't keep my eyes open anymore - this meaning that my body clock is completely messed up !!! i don't even know what day it is anymore !
the best moments are those few short seconds when you've just woken up from a deep sleep , and you're blissfully unaware of the anxiety , then you remember and the cycle starts again .
it's those moments that keep me fighting against this stupid thing , because they give me hope that i will be free from it .
okay this has taken my mind of my panic for a few minutes , it's almost 10 am and i haven't slept since yesterday morning .... i'll see if i can get some sleep finally .
random thoughts would be appreciated , anything to distract my mind XX
i thought i had got over this , i'm not naive enough to think i can just be 100% normal again like that but i thought i had 'cracked the code' .
just accepting the anxiety and realizing that it's not going to harm you - i really felt i'd mastered it !
to an extent i have done as it's been 5 months since my symptoms started and i have given up the beta blockers already as i felt they weren't really doing anything for me , but since christmas it's just been a downward spiral back to a place i can't cope with .
something will trigger my anxiety e.g. my vision will go funny for a second - panic will set in (oh no my eyes are going funny , i must be dying!!!!!) - then my brain kicks in (you are not dying , you have been starring at the light for too long so naturally when you look away your vision is going to be a bit weird) - deep breathing - over the anxiety .
this is the cycle i followed .
but now
i am CONSTANTLY on edge , there's no relief from it , even if i'm just sitting down doing nothing , my leg will be twitching like crazy and my heart will be fluttering !
ANYTHING can set me off , for example someone dropping something (????!) or a loud noise , or basically something unexpected .
as soon as i feel any type of sensation in my body i freak out and believe that i'm going to drop down dead .... when you type that it doesn't look serious , it's almost impossible to describe to someone who has never been through anxiety what that feeling is like , but i genuinely believe that i'm about to die at any moment .
it's so crippling , i'm 20 years old , i want to be able to wake up in the morning and not be scared to move , i want to enjoy my life , i want to be able to go out to clubs and not have to make excuses to leave 10 minutes after getting there because i feel dizzy and sick with anxiety .
i can't seem to get my brain to rationalize with itself anymore , instead my thoughts are just going crazy and i don't feel like i have control over them anymore , i don't know how to get them back !!!!
i don't mean to sound like a whining muppet - as i know there are people much worse off than me , with serious illnesses and terrible things happening with their lives etcetc , but like i've tried to explain to my family , i literally cannot help or shake this feeling , if i could then i wouldn't have an anxiety disorder ?
i know that i'm going to have my ups and downs with this thing , but right now i'm on a massive downer and would like to start feeling better again
the major thing thats getting me down is sleep , i just can't sleep . the only time i'm able to sleep is when i'm literally exhausted and can't keep my eyes open anymore - this meaning that my body clock is completely messed up !!! i don't even know what day it is anymore !
the best moments are those few short seconds when you've just woken up from a deep sleep , and you're blissfully unaware of the anxiety , then you remember and the cycle starts again .
it's those moments that keep me fighting against this stupid thing , because they give me hope that i will be free from it .
okay this has taken my mind of my panic for a few minutes , it's almost 10 am and i haven't slept since yesterday morning .... i'll see if i can get some sleep finally .
random thoughts would be appreciated , anything to distract my mind XX