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28-04-10, 23:11
Sorry ,if im in the wrong forum .Im so depressed..We just moved..Some of you may have been following my pre move..I was so happy to be home ,I have a lot more energy. The surroundings are my home. A general feeling of well being and happiness swept over me for about two weeks..
Recently I have been working real hard to get things in order. We have been eating out before the move and during the move and now after the move since we are having the kitchen re done in the new house. Its weird..It seems like at times i can breathe better and im more relaxed but the last few days I have been getting little anxiety attacks and have just been generally feeling ill and breathless.
I thought under the circumstances coming down over a mile and one half above sea level for five years I did well.We have been eating a lot and eating out but I knew we had been very busy and burning a lot of calories.
A friend came over and made photos when we first got here. I really didn't think much about it.. I knew I had gained some weight but my face I thought seemed to be ok.. I thought. I have also been worried about a mole that is the same shape is was over 10 years ago but has grown three times its original size but still the same shape and a little puffy.. But it has the characteristics of a mole and nothing more but I still worry.
My depression. My friend brought over his camera so that I could see if I would like to buy the same type. He had the photos he took of us over three weeks ago and I looked at myself and wanted to die..There was an old ugly weathered round faced old man..I could not believe my eyes.. How terrible I looked..I thought I looked like I did years ago ..I lied to myself until i saw the photos of me ..I feel so depressed, I am sick to my stomach and feel like im going to throw up.I am so ashamed. My skin looks really bad, I have a triple chin and I have lost a lot of my hair. The bad thing was i was going around seeing people thinking I looked the same ,Now I just want to hide in a hole.
Im so depressed and don't know if losing weight will make me look better as last time I lost a lot of weight the flesh was just hanging off of me.. and I looked like walking death but now I can't even describe myself as I just look in shame and can't believe my friend took these photos of me.I should not have let him ,but he likes to make me look bad I think because he is a little jealous of me..I can't understand why but he is.. Im sick with depression and sadness that my body has aged so badly and don't know what to do about it.Im feeling really low right now and I have stopped worrying about the mole i was worried about because frankly I feel ,maybe its time to leave this world as bad as I look.. Im not suicidal because im too chicken but now I have lost the desire to care.. And I just wanted to be home and have fun and see old friends and family and now I don't want to see anyone not even strangers.
Im sorry about rambling im just so depressed and discussed ..Michael
Recently I have been working real hard to get things in order. We have been eating out before the move and during the move and now after the move since we are having the kitchen re done in the new house. Its weird..It seems like at times i can breathe better and im more relaxed but the last few days I have been getting little anxiety attacks and have just been generally feeling ill and breathless.
I thought under the circumstances coming down over a mile and one half above sea level for five years I did well.We have been eating a lot and eating out but I knew we had been very busy and burning a lot of calories.
A friend came over and made photos when we first got here. I really didn't think much about it.. I knew I had gained some weight but my face I thought seemed to be ok.. I thought. I have also been worried about a mole that is the same shape is was over 10 years ago but has grown three times its original size but still the same shape and a little puffy.. But it has the characteristics of a mole and nothing more but I still worry.
My depression. My friend brought over his camera so that I could see if I would like to buy the same type. He had the photos he took of us over three weeks ago and I looked at myself and wanted to die..There was an old ugly weathered round faced old man..I could not believe my eyes.. How terrible I looked..I thought I looked like I did years ago ..I lied to myself until i saw the photos of me ..I feel so depressed, I am sick to my stomach and feel like im going to throw up.I am so ashamed. My skin looks really bad, I have a triple chin and I have lost a lot of my hair. The bad thing was i was going around seeing people thinking I looked the same ,Now I just want to hide in a hole.
Im so depressed and don't know if losing weight will make me look better as last time I lost a lot of weight the flesh was just hanging off of me.. and I looked like walking death but now I can't even describe myself as I just look in shame and can't believe my friend took these photos of me.I should not have let him ,but he likes to make me look bad I think because he is a little jealous of me..I can't understand why but he is.. Im sick with depression and sadness that my body has aged so badly and don't know what to do about it.Im feeling really low right now and I have stopped worrying about the mole i was worried about because frankly I feel ,maybe its time to leave this world as bad as I look.. Im not suicidal because im too chicken but now I have lost the desire to care.. And I just wanted to be home and have fun and see old friends and family and now I don't want to see anyone not even strangers.
Im sorry about rambling im just so depressed and discussed ..Michael