estuchbury
21-05-10, 01:42
Ok, where do i start? Well, i'm 22, 23 next saturday. I've suffered with depression for 2 years and 2 weeks. I know the exact date because it was when my baby's dad walked out on me on his birthday when our son was 4 months old. He left me for his ex. I have 3 children. Johnathan who is 5, Dylan who is 3 and Tyler who is 2. Before tylers dad i was with my eldest two's dad in an extremely violent relationship, he used to lock me in my room and force himself on me, hit me and just generally abuse me.
Last year i started taking citalopram but had awfull side affects so stopped taking them after 2 months. I was too scared to go to the doctors for more but then something happened... I am rather ashamed and feel extremely guilty so i find it hard to talk to people about it but as no one on here knows me i'm gonna go for it... One morning i was running late for taking my eldest two to school (i was often late as i had sleeping problems) So i got a taxi, my youngest, still in his pj's came in the taxi while dropping the other 2 off, anyway, i got home and was exhausted as usual, so i put tyler in his bed to watch a dvd and he fell asleep so i went for a bath. When i got out the bath i felt empty and confused, didn't know where i was or what i was doing and i passed out, Tyler woke up and got out of my house as i had forgot to lock the door. Luckily a friend found him straight away and she was screaming at me but i still didn't know where i was or even who she was so she phoned my babys dad and he took him off me. Since then i am only allowed supervised visits with my son, at my home with his nan here. My other 2 still live with me.
Anyway, i went to the doctors and she asked me if i was on drugs?? I have never touched drugs in my life!!! So she gave me mirtazapine, i've been on it for 3 months now but i am still constantly up and down, i put on loads of weight too. A month ago i set myself a goal to get a part time job. I got one working in debenhams within a week but 2 weeks into it i couldnt handle it and locked myself in my bedroom for 3 days. Luckily i have a partner who is amazing and helps me with my boys, i dunno what i would do without him.
The other thing is i keep having visions of me stabbing myself in the stomach... i often think about suicide but as my mum tried to kill herself 3 times wen i was younger by overdose and failed i always think of alternative ways but its got to the point where i see this every day.
Anyway, yesterday i didnt take my tablet and none tonight either as i have ran out and cant get the motivation to even go to the doctors... and im panicking.... i didnt sleep at all last night and doubt i will tonight... i'm just constantly up and down. One day i can feel amazing and have the perfect plans to sort myself out then the next i loose all motivation and i'm stuck... i want to get better for my babies more than anything...i just dont know how......PLEASE HELP!!!! X
Last year i started taking citalopram but had awfull side affects so stopped taking them after 2 months. I was too scared to go to the doctors for more but then something happened... I am rather ashamed and feel extremely guilty so i find it hard to talk to people about it but as no one on here knows me i'm gonna go for it... One morning i was running late for taking my eldest two to school (i was often late as i had sleeping problems) So i got a taxi, my youngest, still in his pj's came in the taxi while dropping the other 2 off, anyway, i got home and was exhausted as usual, so i put tyler in his bed to watch a dvd and he fell asleep so i went for a bath. When i got out the bath i felt empty and confused, didn't know where i was or what i was doing and i passed out, Tyler woke up and got out of my house as i had forgot to lock the door. Luckily a friend found him straight away and she was screaming at me but i still didn't know where i was or even who she was so she phoned my babys dad and he took him off me. Since then i am only allowed supervised visits with my son, at my home with his nan here. My other 2 still live with me.
Anyway, i went to the doctors and she asked me if i was on drugs?? I have never touched drugs in my life!!! So she gave me mirtazapine, i've been on it for 3 months now but i am still constantly up and down, i put on loads of weight too. A month ago i set myself a goal to get a part time job. I got one working in debenhams within a week but 2 weeks into it i couldnt handle it and locked myself in my bedroom for 3 days. Luckily i have a partner who is amazing and helps me with my boys, i dunno what i would do without him.
The other thing is i keep having visions of me stabbing myself in the stomach... i often think about suicide but as my mum tried to kill herself 3 times wen i was younger by overdose and failed i always think of alternative ways but its got to the point where i see this every day.
Anyway, yesterday i didnt take my tablet and none tonight either as i have ran out and cant get the motivation to even go to the doctors... and im panicking.... i didnt sleep at all last night and doubt i will tonight... i'm just constantly up and down. One day i can feel amazing and have the perfect plans to sort myself out then the next i loose all motivation and i'm stuck... i want to get better for my babies more than anything...i just dont know how......PLEASE HELP!!!! X