louise123_uk
21-06-10, 11:08
My new boyfriend has quite alot of moles all over his body. I would say maybe 50 to 60 moles. Hes quite blase about this, and doesnt think he has anything to worry about, but ive read that people with a large number of moles are prone to skin cancer. I want him to go to docs and ask to ahve them looked at but he wont and says Im being paranoid as he hasnt noticed any changes but god knows how he would with so many! (hes really supportive of my little worries but wont humour me enough to go get checked himself).
I have maybe 25 moles with new ones seemingly always appaering, including two really large ones and have always been terrified that I might get skin cancer. Ive been to docs twice and both times they were very dismissive and took nothing more thabn a quick glance at 2 of them before saying nothing to worry about and no need to refer you if you havent noticed them itchy or bleeding or changing, even though ive said I dont know exactly how they looked before! So I know that his doc might be dismissive to him too
Do you think I should keep nagging him to go?
I have maybe 25 moles with new ones seemingly always appaering, including two really large ones and have always been terrified that I might get skin cancer. Ive been to docs twice and both times they were very dismissive and took nothing more thabn a quick glance at 2 of them before saying nothing to worry about and no need to refer you if you havent noticed them itchy or bleeding or changing, even though ive said I dont know exactly how they looked before! So I know that his doc might be dismissive to him too
Do you think I should keep nagging him to go?