My sister's breast cancer is Stage 5

[kellynwv]

My sister found out she had breast cancer in September about two weeks after I got married.

She is not just my sister but my mother..she raised me through my teen years.

She found out yesterday they can not get ride of all the cells and she will have to be treated for the rest of her life. It is in her liver right now. Her blood pressure will not come down she might have a heart attack or stroke at anytime.

I just needed to vent..thanks

[Ammeg]

I am so sorry!!! If you need to chat anymore please feel free!!!!
Ammegx

[Piglet]

Thinking about you.

Love Piglet xx

[trac67]

Hi kelly,

Thinking of you and your sister, stay strong for her and be there for her when she needs you.

Take care

Trac xx

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[jackie]

hi kelly

hard times im sure but at least you have eachother. must be a very special relationship. the two of you will get through this

i am here as our all of us, take care and let us no how shes getting on.

positive vibes from ireland

jackie

[kellynwv]

Thank you for your kind comments.

She is a strong woman and I look up to her... she is much stronger than I am.

[Karen]

Sorry to hear your news Kelly.

Karen



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I love you for in my life you are a friend of mine
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We were alone and I was singing this song for you."

[kellynwv]

I just called and sent her flowers! I know she will love them.

[nomorepanic]

Really sorry to hear this.

I hope that you find the strength to help her through this and look after yourself as well.

Nicola

[looby]

thinking of you both. I know exactly what you are going through!!!!
she will just need you to be as strong for her as possible and I am sure you can be.

Looby
xxx

[Forrest]

Sorry to hear about your sister...My cuz has had breast cancer and was at that stage too lost both breats and lyphnodes in her arm pits i can give you some help in a very good place to go for your sister that helped my cuz marie beat breast cancer marie was only 35 when she was dx with it and she is now cancer free for two years now but she tell me about this place in chicgo that she went for treatment and she said it one of the bests at fighting it she still flys there every six months for check ups if you want the info on the place i can get it for you i guess they are the best at fighting it head on..

[kellynwv]

Thank you.

They said it is too late to remove her breasts because that would not remove the cells out of her body. That is the part that scares me the most. Knowing she has to go through treatment for the rest of her life. They did say she would get a break sometimes a week to three weeks here and there.

thanks so much.

[Meg]

Hello Kelly.

Sorry to hear your sad news.

Fortunately breast cancer treatment contuniues to improve so we hope there is some treatment for your sister.


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[tnt808]

Kelly,

I am thinking of you and your family during this trying time. I hope you can manage through it. Please keep us posted on any new changes.

Thanks,
Tina

[kellynwv]

Thank you Tina, and thanks to everyone.

I have no update right now. Her body does seem to adjust to the chemo better every week.

I have opened my heart and mind to what happens if she does not make it. I honestly think she will make it and live a long time, but I think facing the worse is best for me in the long run.. hopefully I will cope better. I haven't had any anxiety for two weeks, and I do want to keep it that way.. and I think I can support her better if I do remain calm.

Thanks again!

[jackie]

many feel to face the worst and hope for better is the best. i read a book about that once and it seemed to work for many people

hope you both dont have to face it though. live with hope
jackie

[kellynwv]

Hi,

I just called my sister and talked to her husband. He said she is not feeling good today. I called yesterday and she sounded so sad, and that is not like her.

She is the one that keeps ME going and is uplifting. Now, I guess it is my turn. I really do not even know what to say to her.

I avoid her sometimes because if I am having anxiety I do not want her to worry about me, when I use to run to her with any problem I had.

I guess I am saying I have lost my shoulder to lean on. I feel I can't talk to her about my problems anymore, because she has anough of her own. I am so thankful for my husband, because I don't know what I would do if it wasn't for him to be there for me.

Sorry just wanted to talk.